Having It A.L.L.
Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along!
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How To Get Out Of A Funk Quickly And Easily
How do you get yourself out of a funk? In today's episode I'm giving you a very simple and very effective method for getting yourself out of a funk, that you can do anywhere at any time.
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Sexual Confidence and Male Performance Anxiety:...
Are you ready for a raw and honest conversation about sexual confidence? I read an article recently that brought up a number of feelings within me and inspired this conversation. Today I'm talking about sexual confidence and male performance anxiety:...
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Avoiding Burnout, Business Planning and Content...
Are you feeling the pains of being a Type A personality? Do you feel like you're great at go, go, go but don't know how to take a break? Are you wondering how to create a business plan to launch your new venture? Or maybe you're in a business...
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The Not-So-Secret (Yet Super Effective) Strateg...
What games are you playing in life? Depending on your context around the word "game" you might answer this question in many ways. My response is MANY, because I believe we're all playing many games in our lives.....and we're all WINNING at the...
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Toxic People, Negative Noise And Marriage Prep:...
Do you have toxic people in your life? How about in your inner circle? Are there folks in your life who are constantly bringing negativity and noise into your world? And what are the things you should be reviewing and thinking about when preparing for marriage? These are the questions I answer in today's episode of the podcast! The topics today were suggested by YOU and all have to do with OTHERS. Last week I focused on SELF, and today we're focusing on OTHERS (next week is LIFE). I get fiery in this one, so buckle up for some real talk!
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Authenticity, Fear And Abundance: Answering You...
What does it mean to be your authentic self? How do you tackle moving through your biggest fears? What does the phrase "having it all" mean to you personally? Today's episode is a cool one, because I'm answering your questions about authenticity, fear...
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Mind-Body Connection: How Labels & Fears Are Im...
Are you familiar with the mind-body connection? It's truly fascinating! Your mind and body are connected, and the former has a huge influence on the health and wellbeing of the latter. The labels you wear on, thoughts you think, and beliefs you hold...
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Let's Get A Bit Uncomfortable
When was the last time you were triggered by someone or something, and felt really uncomfortable? I had two conversations in the past few days that brought up some discomfort within me. One had to do with my money and the other had to do with...
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7 Big Self Help Mistakes To Avoid When You're W...
On your journey to better yourself and improve your life, what are you doing that's keeping you stuck, playing small, in your denial or fearful? There are ways to be effective with what you're doing, and ways to be ineffective. Yes, every "mistake"...
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Porn In Relationships: An Open Conversation Abo...
How do you feel about your partner watching pornography? It's a topic that I wouldn't be surprised comes up in most relationships in some way. I know it certainly has in mine. On today's episode, Sarah joins me to answer a listener...
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How Big Is Your Money Game?
How big is your money game? That's the question at the heart of today's episode. You see, there are many beliefs out there around money and personal self worth that impact your financial reality. I heard a new belief yesterday that...
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Mini Episode: Raise Your Standards, Change Your...
Today's mini episode quotes are all about having personal standards in your life, and they come from Mastin Kipp, Joel Brown and Tony Robbins. Setting and holding personal standards are so important to me in fact, that they make up the...
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Mini Episode: Your Unique Mission
Today's quotes are all about the power of having a personal mission in your life, and come from Zig Ziglar and Victor Frankl. I'm a HUGE fan of personal mission statements (it's one of my most returned to topics on the podcast), and it's the...
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Mini Episode: The Lie Of Abundance
"There is a lie that acts like a virus within the mind of humanity. And that lie is, ‘There’s not enough good to go around. There’s lack and there’s limitation and there’s just not enough.’ The truth is that there’s more than...
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Mini Episode: Spend Your Talents Lavishly
"If you have talent, use it in every which way possible. Don’t hoard it. Don’t dole it out like a miser. Spend it lavishly, like a millionaire intent on going broke." -Brendan Francis "Talent is like electricity. We don’t understand...
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Mini Episode: Values & Decision Making
"When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier". That quote is from Roy E. Disney, and is the topic for today's special mini episode. My course, the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint, launched this week, and to celebrate the launch...
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Stop Avoiding Breakdowns
Are you avoiding breakdowns in your life? You might be saying "Of course I do, why wouldn't I?" Well, buckle up because in today's episode I'm letting you know that if you're living a life of avoiding breakdowns (not being your...
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Why Personal Mission Statements Are the Most Po...
What is your personal mission in life? Why do you get out of bed and do what you do each day? I talk a lot about personal mission statements in this podcast. I believe in the power of a personal mission statement. I've seen how having one for the past...
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Most People Will Never Have It All (Are You One...
What are the beliefs, stories, experiences that you've pushed down so deep into your soul, that the thought of bringing them into the light is terrifying? That's what we're talking about in today's episode! If you're listening to this show it's...
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Transform Your Sex By Doing These 3 Intentional...
How intentional are you with sex? Sex is a thing that requires zero maturity or acquired knowledge to participate in, yet can be extraordinary risk from both a physical and emotional standpoint. So today I'm talking about the...
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You Are What You Believe
What beliefs are you currently holding that is robbing you of your health, happiness, and power? Today I'm talking about the power (and consequences) of your beliefs. Your internal conversations and the beliefs associated with them are...
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A Different Take On Purpose, Vision and Passion
How do you define purpose, vision and passion? I've had a love hate relationship to the ideas of purpose, vision and passion. I love them because they are at the heart of creating a truly fulfilled and magical life, and that's what I'm playing...
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If You Pursue Profit Without Purpose You Will N...
Are you pursuing money believing that when you get it your life will finally be better? Today I'm going to shatter a few cases of denial, by letting you know that if you're chasing profits without purpose then you will NEVER have it all. Why? Because...
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Trust And Let Go Of What It "Should" Look Like
How attached are you to the way you feel your life should look like? If you're frustrated with the way things are right now... If you're annoyed because something in your life is not going according to your plan... If you're experiencing...
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Getting Started With Budgeting And Building Fin...
Do you know where your money is going? Knowing where your money is going each month (aka budgeting) is one of those habits that is incredibly challenging for a lot of us to build and maintain. And if you're like me, then perhaps your...
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