Having It A.L.L.

Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along! 

Self-Improvement
Mental Health
Alternative Health
1
STOP Ignoring This Feedback, If You Want Your L...
34 min
2
The "Be-Do-Have" Paradigm And The Simple Mindse...
22 min
3
Stop Drifting—The 5 W’s That Realign Your Life
27 min
4
The Truth About Balance: Why You’re Out of Alig...
15 min
5
8 Habits That Make You Unshakable In Life, Love...
41 min
6
"You Have To Move Your Feet": A Story About See...
76 min
7
The Personal Development Trap: Why Chasing Grow...
23 min
8
The Quiet Habit That’s Killing Your Self Confid...
21 min
9
The 3 Mindsets That Have Transformed My Confide...
21 min
10
You’re In The Fire—Here's How You Don’t Lose Yo...
20 min
11
The Consequences Of Brutal Honesty
23 min
12
7 Gratitude Truths That’ll Rewire Your Mind (Th...
21 min
13
The Danger Of Seeking Work-Life Balance
27 min
14
How To Melt Your Fears Like Butter
16 min
15
Do You Know Your Center? The Success Of Your Re...
44 min
16
Who Are You When No One Is Watching?
36 min
17
Here's Why You Keep Getting Into Unhealthy Rela...
31 min
18
What The Birth Of My Child Has Taught Me About ...
26 min
19
How To Expand The Great Things In Life Through ...
You've probably heard sayings like"What you think you become." (Buddha) and "What you focus on expands." (T. Harv Eker).
32 min
20
Breaking Your Fear Patterns Once And For All
This episode is about what it really takes to experience a breakthrough in your life. To get unstuck. To start experiencing things in a dramatically different way. It takes action. It takes movement. It takes getting out of your head and getting into your heart and doing something that you know to be the best move for you, but scares you shitless.
33 min
21
Your Relationships Are Killing You
I truly believe that your relationships are the most important factor to your health (and I'm not talking about relationships in the way you might be thinking). You don't want to miss this one because this episode will get you thinking!
24 min
22
The One Thing I Use to Get Back on Track to Ach...
This episode was inspired by an article titled “The one sentence that finally inspired me to lose 70 pounds”. I read that and thought to myself, “I want to know that one thing!!!” Not because I feel I need to lose 70 pounds, but because anytime someone claims to know the one thing/secret/habit I really want to hear it. So I checked it out….and liked what I read! But the point of the article made me think about my one thing and about a topic that I address regularly on this show --- personal mission statements.
19 min
23
Who Will You Become In 2025? My Favorite Practi...
Who will you become in 2018? We're all used to setting new years resolutions and goals for what we want to DO in the upcoming year, but rarely do we make time for a much more important exercise -- being clear on who we want to become in the new year.
21 min
24
The 6 F's - Having It A.L.L. Framework Part 3
This is part 3 in my series where I'm breaking down the meaning of A.L.L. - Abundant Loving Life, and where I'm sharing my framework for "having it all". In the A.L.L. framework, I've chosen to focus on what I think are 6 key areas of life: Faith, Family, Friends, Fitness, Finance, and Fun.
30 min
25
What is Your Love Conversation? - Having It A.L...
Continuing our series on the Having It A.L.L. framework, today's episode is all about LOVE. I have a special guest on this episode with me today, one perfectly suited to chat with me about love.
35 min