Having It A.L.L.
Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along!
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How Big Is Your Money Game?
How big is your money game? That's the question at the heart of today's episode. You see, there are many beliefs out there around money and personal self worth that impact your financial reality. I heard a new belief yesterday that...
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Mini Episode: Raise Your Standards, Change Your...
Today's mini episode quotes are all about having personal standards in your life, and they come from Mastin Kipp, Joel Brown and Tony Robbins. Setting and holding personal standards are so important to me in fact, that they make up the...
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Mini Episode: Your Unique Mission
Today's quotes are all about the power of having a personal mission in your life, and come from Zig Ziglar and Victor Frankl. I'm a HUGE fan of personal mission statements (it's one of my most returned to topics on the podcast), and it's the...
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Mini Episode: The Lie Of Abundance
"There is a lie that acts like a virus within the mind of humanity. And that lie is, ‘There’s not enough good to go around. There’s lack and there’s limitation and there’s just not enough.’ The truth is that there’s more than...
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Mini Episode: Spend Your Talents Lavishly
"If you have talent, use it in every which way possible. Don’t hoard it. Don’t dole it out like a miser. Spend it lavishly, like a millionaire intent on going broke." -Brendan Francis "Talent is like electricity. We don’t understand...
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Mini Episode: Values & Decision Making
"When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier". That quote is from Roy E. Disney, and is the topic for today's special mini episode. My course, the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint, launched this week, and to celebrate the launch...
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Stop Avoiding Breakdowns
Are you avoiding breakdowns in your life? You might be saying "Of course I do, why wouldn't I?" Well, buckle up because in today's episode I'm letting you know that if you're living a life of avoiding breakdowns (not being your...
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Why Personal Mission Statements Are the Most Po...
What is your personal mission in life? Why do you get out of bed and do what you do each day? I talk a lot about personal mission statements in this podcast. I believe in the power of a personal mission statement. I've seen how having one for the past...
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Most People Will Never Have It All (Are You One...
What are the beliefs, stories, experiences that you've pushed down so deep into your soul, that the thought of bringing them into the light is terrifying? That's what we're talking about in today's episode! If you're listening to this show it's...
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Transform Your Sex By Doing These 3 Intentional...
How intentional are you with sex? Sex is a thing that requires zero maturity or acquired knowledge to participate in, yet can be extraordinary risk from both a physical and emotional standpoint. So today I'm talking about the...
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You Are What You Believe
What beliefs are you currently holding that is robbing you of your health, happiness, and power? Today I'm talking about the power (and consequences) of your beliefs. Your internal conversations and the beliefs associated with them are...
26 min
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A Different Take On Purpose, Vision and Passion
How do you define purpose, vision and passion? I've had a love hate relationship to the ideas of purpose, vision and passion. I love them because they are at the heart of creating a truly fulfilled and magical life, and that's what I'm playing...
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If You Pursue Profit Without Purpose You Will N...
Are you pursuing money believing that when you get it your life will finally be better? Today I'm going to shatter a few cases of denial, by letting you know that if you're chasing profits without purpose then you will NEVER have it all. Why? Because...
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Trust And Let Go Of What It "Should" Look Like
How attached are you to the way you feel your life should look like? If you're frustrated with the way things are right now... If you're annoyed because something in your life is not going according to your plan... If you're experiencing...
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Getting Started With Budgeting And Building Fin...
Do you know where your money is going? Knowing where your money is going each month (aka budgeting) is one of those habits that is incredibly challenging for a lot of us to build and maintain. And if you're like me, then perhaps your...
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Create Your Word For The Year: A Simple Process...
What is your word for this year? You may be used to creating new years resolutions or setting goals for the year. But I have something even more simple and effective, and that's coming up with a single word that embodies the life you wish to...
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Do This BEFORE Planning Your 2019 Goals And New...
Have you started planning your goals and resolutions for 2019? Whether you have your goals already, or haven't even started, there's one thing you want to make sure you do before you write your goals in stone, and that's take a deep look at how...
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A Little Bit Of Holiday Magic And Gratitude
Did you know that magic and gratitude were major factors in "having it all" to me? That's sort of a trick question, because if you've listened to the show before you know that they are DEFINITELY ingredients to the having it all formula. ...
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Feeling Stuck In Life? Here's The Secret To Get...
Are you feeling stuck in life right now? Feeling stuck is something that we all can relate to, because at one point or another we've been there. It's not a fun feeling, and normally it turns into self criticism and judgements that we're not...
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The Top 5 Regrets Of The Dying: Are You Creatin...
What regrets do you have in life? None of us want to have regrets. That feeling of wishing you had done something different, said something different, is terrible. I'm sure we can all think of at least one thing we regret. In today's...
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How To Finally Stop Self Sabotage
How do you stop the process of self sabotaging? That's a million dollar question if I've ever heard one! I think most, if not all, of us can relate to self sabotage. We know what it feels like to see the potential for our...
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Feel Like Your Life Just Isn't Working? Here's ...
Have you ever felt like your life was not working? That in one (or many) areas of your life, things are just off and not where you want them to be? Maybe you're in that place right now. I recently had a very powerful and humbling...
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The Magic Of Paying Forward Positivity (Rebroad...
When was the last time you were truly inspired by someones act of kindness and love? For me, it was just a few minutes ago, and this gesture is the reason for today's episode. I'm rebroadcasting an episode from a few months ago called Paying Forward...
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How Daddy-Daughter Dates Can Heal The World
What was the last empowering and loving daddy-daughter experience you witnessed? Hopefully you don't have to think too hard to come up with an example. But unfortunately I think it can be harder to think of examples of loving interactions between...
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New Years Resolutions: Why I'm Not A Fan Of The...
Do you set new years resolutions? If so, how often do you complete them? And more importantly, what is your experience of your new years resolution? As you can tell by the title, I don't like new years resolutions at all. I'm all for people committing...
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