Having It A.L.L.

Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along! 

Self-Improvement
Mental Health
Alternative Health
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Gratitude Is Everything
Today's episode is a about gratitude. I've talked about gratitude twice in the past week because of how important it is to experience an Abundant Loving Life.  I recommend creating a moment each day to express gratitude in some sort of way....
2 min
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The 8 Habits Of A Humble Badass (Rebroadcast)
Today's episode is a rebroadcast of The 8 Habits Of A Humble Badass episode, which is one of the most downloaded on the show. So that tells you it's definitely worth checking out! On this episode I'm joined by my wife Sarah as she breaks down the 8...
42 min
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4 Simple Ways You Can Practice Mindfulness Ever...
In today's episode I'm sharing with you 4 everyday activities that you can use to practice mindfulness. Mindfulness is about bringing your attention to the present moment. Meditation is one way you can practice mindfulness. But there are other ways....
19 min
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How Gratitude Improves Your Productivity - Prac...
In today's episode I'm talking about how gratitude can improve your productivity. There are very practical benefits to creating a gratitude practice, that honestly, until recently I was unaware of. But after reading an article by my good friend,...
18 min
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A Powerful Method For Changing Your Relationshi...
In today's episode I'm sharing a way for you to learn how to change your relationship towards stress. If you're used to feeling stressed out with ish hits the fan, and you have been unable to shift that feeling, then tune in! I'm going to share with...
17 min
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Does Your Walk Match Your Talk?
Today's episode is examining our expectations and our effort, and seeing if our walk truly matches up with our talk. As we go on our separate personal development journeys towards greater peace, health, wealth, clarity, relationships....whatever it...
14 min
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The Only Time Your Self Help Practice Matters I...
Today's episode is all about the rubber meeting the road. I'm talking about the only time when your self help, personal development, self empowerment....whatever you want to call it....practices matter, is when you have to prove it. We know that talk...
18 min
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How To Become A Great Leader Through Committing...
In today’s episode I’m bringing you part 2 of my inspiring conversation with Chris Perez. I strongly urge you to listen to part 1, Chris and I had a powerful conversation about tapping into your full potential and achieving greatness. You can...
32 min
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A Simple Method For Feeling More Courageous In ...
In this episode I'm sharing a very simple and effective practice for not only building your courage in the face of anxiety and current challenges, but building your overall sense of belief in yourself that you can overcome any challenge or obstacle...
17 min
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7 Must Haves For Stellar Relationships (They Ar...
In today’s episode I’m sharing with you 7 must haves for healthy, sexy, thriving relationships. This list is not what you may be expecting. I’m not listing off things like “Be an effective communicator”, or “Spend more time looking into...
26 min
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Unleashing Your Personal Potential and Achievin...
In today's episode I share with you a fantastic conversation I had with an incredibly inspiring man, Chris Perez.  Chris is all about empowering leaders to "Unleash Personal Potential" through emotional, physical, and spiritual balance He is a...
15 min
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Getting More Out Of Life By Working Smarter, No...
In today's episode I'm sharing with you my tried and tested process for being more productive and feeling more fulfilled, by working smarter and not harder. I have been somewhat obsessed with productivity and work efficiency ever since graduating...
42 min
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Health, Success, Relationships & Fear: My Great...
In today's episode I celebrate reaching the 100 episode milestone and share the four greatest lessons I've learned throughout the run of the show. For the past 18 months I've been driving towards the 100 episode goal, and now that it's hear I'm...
44 min
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How To Know When You’re On The Right Path - See...
Today's episode I predict will be a powerful one for many. I'm talking about how to know when you're on the right path in life, and how to see the signs when you are out of alignment.  The topic was inspired by a crystal clear example of me being...
21 min
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A Pragmatists View On Affirmations - How To Get...
In this episode I'm talking about affirmations and positive self talk, and giving you my perspective as a self-diagnosed pragmatist.  I've tried my hand at affirmations many times, and have had mixed feelings and experiences. I do believe in the...
22 min
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Star Wars, Hypnobabies and Kiddie Pools: Our Ho...
Today I have a special BONUS episode for you. 1 year ago today, on September 11, 2016, my daughter Maya was born. Sarah and I welcomed here into the world in a planned home birth. We shared the entire birth experience on our podcast Doing It At Home,...
20 min
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How To Connect With Your Inner Beauty - Practic...
In today's episode I have an awesome conversation with Michelle Khouri about connecting with your inner beauty, seeing the beauty in others, practical self love tips, and all around how to level up your life.  This is a special episode because I...
49 min
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The Unspoken Truth About Seeking An Abundant Life
In this episode I'm shining light on something that frequently happens when we seek an abundant life. It's not always talked about, and often is judged. However it's completely natural and common and happens to pretty much everyone who is seeking to...
18 min
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Embracing Life’s F**k it Moments - Why Taking A...
Today's episode is not intended for young ears. As you can probably tell from the title, I'm not holding back today! Today I wanted to talk about those moments that come across our path in life where you just have to say "f**k it!" and take a leap of...
13 min
420
The Law Of Attraction - A Down To Earth Approac...
In today's episode I'm sharing my thoughts on The Law Of Attraction. I talk about why it's controversial, share my thoughts on it, and give you some practical advice on how to put The Law Of Attraction to use in your life.  If you've heard of or...
17 min
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The Often Overlooked Step Of Goal Setting & Mak...
In today's episode I'm recalling some significant, and almost missed lessons from a recent client call. What I share is applicable to everyone, whether you're working in a corporate setting, a stay-at-home parent (holla!), or grinding away in...
24 min
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What You Need Versus What You Want - How To Fee...
In today's episode I'm referencing the well known saying that you are given "what you need, not what you want". I explore this belief and share a story of a recent encounter when this belief was shared with me first hand. 
24 min
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How To Stay Focused In Life To Achieve Results
In today's episode I'm sharing tips on how to focus your life to achieve results.  I recently took part in a peak performance, work efficiency challenge that lasted 2 weeks, called Ultraworking Pentathlon. It was a really interesting event and I...
11 min
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When Asking For Help Is Hard - A Simple Way To ...
  In this episode I'm sharing with you a few common examples of when the universe places people or things in our path that are there to help us, and yet we refuse the help. For me, asking for help has been a challenge since I was young. I...
11 min
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How To Be More Consistent When Building Healthy...
In today's episode I'm sharing an example of consistency that I experience in my life every week. His name is Robert Monroe and he has been on this podcast before. In the episode titled "“You Have To Move Your Feet”: A Story About Seeing the...
9 min