Having It A.L.L.
Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along!
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My Process For Creating A Vision Board That Isn...
Do you think vision boards are useless? A lot of people do. And I don't blame them. The idea of making a dream list for your life and watching as it magically appears, does seem pretty unrealistic. And that's how many people approach vision boards...
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The 5 Taboo Topics You Need To Stop Avoiding An...
What subjects are off limits to you? What things do you avoid in your life like the plague?! Most people have some topics that they refuse to address. These "taboo subjects" are robbing you of your power, your freedom and your life! If you want...
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"I am concerned for your life": A Conversation ...
I am concerned for your life. Real talk. If you identify yourself as "busy" and wear your busyness like a badge of honor, then there's a great chance you're putting your health at risk. Today I'm bringing you a raw conversation...
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Don't know your life purpose? YOU'RE SCREWED!!
Don't know what your purpose is? YOU'RE SCREWED! You know I'm just playing, but that's how so many of us feel when we cannot answer the all important question, "What is your life purpose?" Today's conversation may seem a bit...
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Not Feeling Fulfilled In Life? Here's What You ...
Are you feeling fulfilled in your life? If your answer is "No, not really" then I'm curious how you'd answer this next question -- "What would have to happen in order for you to feel fulfilled in your life?" If you cannot answer that second...
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The 1 Question I Asked Myself That Led Me To Di...
What is your life's purpose? There was a time when hearing that question made me feel ashamed (that I didn't have an answer), frustrated (that I had go so long without figuring it out), jealous (of all the other people who were seemingly on their...
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A Different Take On Purpose, Vision and Passion...
How do you define purpose, vision and passion? I've had a love hate relationship to the ideas of purpose, vision and passion. I love them because they are at the heart of creating a truly fulfilled and magical life, and that's what I'm playing...
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The Balance Experts Have Spoken! 10 Expert Tips...
How can you create more balance in your daily life? Do you have a clear answer to this question based off of personal experience, empirical evidence and thorough research? Probably not, and that's totally cool because I did it for you! I...
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Opening Up About My Biggest Recent Struggles
This is not a typical HIA episode. Today I wanted to let you in on a few things that I have been struggling with, which have impacted my life, relationships, business and this podcast.
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The Thinking That Lead To No Boundaries At Work...
Do you have a hard time setting and holding boundaries with work? Are you feeling imbalanced and burnt out with work constantly, AND are you making excuses about why you are unable to establish and hold those boundaries? I know the feeling of...
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3 Underlying Reasons Why You Don't Have Balance...
What do you do when you're feeling imbalanced, burnt out and overwhelmed? Feeling imbalanced is just a part of life. No one is able to maintain their balance, health, and peace 100% of the time (no matter how put together their lives seem on...
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What Is Your Joy-to-Sadness Ratio?
If you looked at your average day, how much of it do you spend in a state of Joy vs Sadness? My coach and mentor Day Adeogba shared with me a conversation he had with his kids recently, where he asked them "What do you think your Joy:Sadness...
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My #1 Piece Of Advice On Improving Any Relation...
How can you improve any relationship in your life? Today I'm sharing with you an incredibly effective way to improve any relationship in your life, from a marriage to a friendship to your relationship with your boss or neighbor. This episode...
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Excuses That Keep You From The Abundance You De...
Are you aware of the impact of the excuses you make in your life? Your desires, wants, goals, aspirations all move you in a certain direction in your life. Excuses pull you in the complete opposite direction. This is true for all of us (it's...
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The Simple Habit That Can Totally Change Your H...
What are you grateful for? Answering this simple question [regularly] can have a tremendous impact on your happiness, relationships, wealth and health, and on today's episode I'm digging into GRATITUDE in all it's awesomeness. You'll hear why sharing...
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12 Habits Unsuccessful People Have In Common
Do you have the habits of an unsuccessful person? You are a compilation of your habits. The actions you take, thoughts you think, and ways you relate to your world all swirl together to make up who you are. There are powerful habits, and less...
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You Are Meant To Have An Extraordinarily Badass...
Does your life feel stagnant in any way? Do you feel like you're settling or just simply surviving? If your answer was YES then listen up, because there's a reason living life that way totally SUCKS! Recently I started reading the book...
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Achieve Your Highest Dreams By Looking At Your ...
What if the path to achieving your highest dreams wasn't in the clarity of your vision, but in the standards you hold for yourself? Todays episode explores the idea that, "We become our lowest standard, not our highest dream." I unpack this...
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Simple Tricks To Help You Become A More Patient...
How do you deal with impatience? We all know the feeling of being impatient. We live in a culture today where we expect things to happen fast. So many things can be at our fingertips in an instant. So it's no surprise that many people struggle with...
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You Are Who You’ve Been Looking For: A Powerful...
In today’s episode I’m bringing you a great conversation I had with Adam Roa. Sometimes I feel like I have the coolest gig in the world, because I get to spend time hanging out with people like Adam. He is a coach, poet, speaker, podcaster and...
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How To Prioritize Your Life And Juggle Your Res...
How do you currently feel about your ability to juggle multiple priorities and competing responsibilities? It's incredibly easy to feel imbalanced when you feel you have many priorities all of equal importance. That's a recipe for feeling overwhelmed,...
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The STOP Method For De-Stressing and Reclaiming...
What do you do when you find yourself totally out of balance and feeling the stress? Well, after you listen to today's podcast you can add the STOP Method to your toolbox! In today's episode I break down the STOP Method for de-stressing...
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6 Big Work-Life Balance Mistakes (And How To Fi...
Are you feeling like this idea of work/life balance is a pipe dream that you're just never going to achieve? In today's episode I'm covering 6 of the most common mistakes people make when trying to achieve work-life balance. One of the most...
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Learning How To Self-Hype (You Have Permission ...
How comfortable are you with speaking highly about yourself? For many people, talking highly about themselves (or even speaking kindly about themselves), is an incredibly challenging thing. Both women and men have learned not to celebrate their...
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Empowerment Team Assemble! How To Build A Super...
Who do you have in your corner helping you create your best life? It's a fallacy that we do anything in life alone. All of the greatest achievements -- personal, group, business, etc. -- happened with a team. The same is true for creating your...
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