We take your questions on wedding invitation wording, including info cards with gifts, when to start eating buffet style and changing shower plans because of changed wedding plans. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods A - C. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about RSVPs when you are the host and guest of honor.

We take your questions on generous family wanting to celebrate your very private wedding, dealing with gluten free issues among friends, presents and parties for twins and a mother-in law who wants to rename her daughter in law on an invitation. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on men and women stepping out together from the 1922 edition of Etiquette. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about diaper disasters.

We take your questions on wearing hats when getting treatment, a fork or spoon with scrambled eggs, the case of the missing gift, and how long to wear black when you’re in mourning. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on our newest book! For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about diaper disasters.

We take your questions on online photo faux pas, addressing letters to beneficiaries, email signature etiquette, and politely deferring tender topics. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on Consideration Respect and Honesty through the eyes of Kindness Gentleness and Safety. For sustaining members your question of the week is about the proper thank you gift for a work trip.

We take your questions on a slacking MOH, reaching out to a neighbor’s landlord, following up after RSVP dates and inviting your ex to your wedding. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on six common introduction mistakes. For sustaining members your question of the week considers stopping for pedestrians not in a crosswalk.

We take your questions on eating freely at parties, major shoes off disrespect, turning a family gathering into a baby shower, and a coworker who is seeking spoons. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment from How to Behave Though a Debutante. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about destination and second weddings gifts.

We take your questions on embracing elopements, listing ex's in an obituary, pouncing on mispronunciation and what to do when birthdays happen close together. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on preparing kids for being houseguests. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about handling an awkward request for money.

Your questions on word vomit, asking a future son-in-law to call you mom, one guest defining an event, and thanking coach after each practice. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on nursing home etiquette. For Awesome Etiquette Sustaining members your extra question of the week is about managers who don’t cover their coughs.

We take your questions on being honest about personal issues, expectations at sip-n-see parties, parking lot etiquette and a question of carrot snatching at the grocery store. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on social media’s changing landscape. For sustaining members the question of the week is about ice cream store sampling.

On today’s show we take your questions on fixing things in front of guests, a shocking place setting, changing others, lunchroom conversation let down, and one dress to impress. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on baby showers. For sustaining members your extra question is about guest rooms.

On today’s show Dan and Lizzie take your questions on calling out adult children, phone call faux pas, dining out with toddlers, engagement gifts for old friends, and tipping for non-taxi car services. Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment inspired by our assistant producer Bridget on week one of a new job. The Awesome Etiquette sustaining members extra question of the week is about about Airbnb for family and Friends. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today’s show we take your questions on delicate dress details, an address conundrum, who gets the armrests, when your host doesn’t serve dinner, and a formal luncheon flop. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment inspired by Dan’s cold. For sustaining members your question of the week considers whether asking about schooling is rude.

On today’s show we take your questions on gifts that aren’t great for kids, being called out on body language at the table, thank yous for recommendations, condolence cards between family members and how to handle brunch after a wedding when no one’s hosting. Plus feedback, an etiquette salute and a postscript segment on announcing engagements. The Awesome Etiquette sustaining members extra question of the week is about elevator pitches and getting yours right.

On today’s show we reply to ladies being left off invitations, trouble with visitors, thank you notes as gifts, and thanking you for a generous favor. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on travel etiquette. The sustaining member extra question of the week is about interviewing via Skype.

On today’s show we take your questions on buying wine for the booze-bus, gift card quandaries, fold over cards, unexpected visitors during naps, and a question about saying thank you instead of I’m sorry. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment on thank-you notes. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about what you do with your purse at a party.

We take your questions on the family gift exchange, long lost thank-yous, texting "no" to casual parties, ring around the baggage carousel, and wearing earbuds at home. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on gifting. The sustaining members question of the week is about gifting obligations with neighbors.

We take your questions on alerting others to your new address, sick kiddos coming to parties, noise and neighbors, saying no to parties, and handling rude comments made by family. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment on setting up your guest room. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about guests who take over the kitchen and overstay their welcome.

We take your questions on cracking joints in public, saying no problem, plus one problems, eye contact at dinner, and friends who text favor requests. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on Holiday Cards. The members extra question of the week is about hosts who can’t get guests to stop bringing food.

On today’s show we take your questions on who should you gift to, what family name to use, greeting guests at the door, not wanting people to accommodate your food restriction and how long you should talk with other guests. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment on Holiday Parties. The sustaining members question of the week is about introductions and deducing who is the more important person in the moment.

On today’s show we take on sipping from soupspoons, a friend’s generosity, being asked to host a baby shower last minute and receiving holiday cards for a deceased parent. Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment on holiday invitation etiquette. Sustaining members, your extra question of the week tackles talking wedding plans without fishing for an invitation.

On today’s show we take your questions on casual Thanksgiving dinner invitations, saucy knives, who pays for broken gifts, requesting gift cards as payment and hand delivering mail. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on "turning the table". The extra question of the week is about turning down a dinner invitation.

We take your questions about names on Holiday cards, how to insist on cooking the meal?, recommendations - after a few years and cultural differences in wedding plans. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment on “The Courteous No”. For sustaining members your question of the week is about walking to a table and who should go first.

On today’s show we take your questions on coffe shop meet-up strategies, debating dinner out "On us", how to respond to unintentionally rude exclamations, steping in to organize as an in-law, and whether or not to use staggered party start times to manage the guest list. Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segement inspired by the final section of Jen Doll's Be Better At Parties NYT Article. The Awesome Etiquette sustaining members extra question of the week is about couples asking for help during baby visits.

We take your questions on double invitations, buying gifts for the boss, eye contact etiquette, interrupting your server while they read specials and a question about stationery as a gift. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment from on working the room. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question is about how not to have a bridal party.

We take your questions on saying thank you after a raise, if your partner is invited to a co-workers party, when a chivalrous act feels forced, replying to thank yous, and then even more questions on thank yous. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and postscript segment that is the third installment from Jen Doll's Be Better At Parties NYT Article. The sustaining members extra content addresses some dos and don’ts of wearing a tux.