Awesome Etiquette

Hosts Lizzie Post and Daniel Post Senning answer audience questions about modern etiquette with advice based on consideration, respect, and honesty. Like their great-great-grandmother, Emily Post, Lizzie and Dan look for the reasons behinds the traditional rules to guide their search for the correct behavior in all kinds of contemporary situations. Test your social acumen and join the discussion about civility and decency in today's complex world.

Society & Culture
Relationships
Kids & Family
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Episode #260: Searching for Conversation
We take your questions on a ghosting mother in law, talking about personal issues at work, funeral flowers with a return shipping request and Google searching during a conversation. For sustaining members we talk about asking for personal items after a funeral. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment roommates and house-guests.
54 min
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Episode #259: Umbretiquette
We take your questions on complicated family wedding drama, a habitual handshaker, gifts from clients, and umbrella etiquette. For sustaining members we talk about what the deal is with potlucks. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment roommates and house-guests.
54 min
303
Episode #258: Jacuzzi Jet Manners
We take your questions on not driving everyone home, wearing white to a wedding, Jacuzzi jet etiquette, and departing roommate etiquette. For sustaining members we talk about classmates who use disposable cups everyday. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment from Laura Claridge’s biography about Emily Post as a debutante.
50 min
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Episode #257: Handkerchief
On today’s show Lizzie and Dan take your questions on weird professor emails, handkerchiefs, vaccine question etiquette, and declining invitations. For Awesome Etiquette Sustaining members we talk about checking blood sugar in public. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on the cocktail hour.
46 min
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Episode # 256: Tag, You're It
We take your questions on nobody showing up to your party, getting married before the ceremony, when a friend complains they aren’t invited, and social media tagging etiquette? For sustaining members we talk about clapping when being applauded and the custom of shaking hands. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on “looking” vs. “seeing”.
43 min
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Episode #255: Flowers for All
We take your questions on late guest requests for a wedding, asking for reassurance on a generous offer, on not being the office know-it-all, a question about who to address a sympathy card to, and an urban workplace myth that is very much alive. For sustaining members we talk about whether or not to purchase flowers for all when a vendor comes to the table. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on “pinkies out” from the rituals of dinner by Margaret Visser.
39 min
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Episode #254: Tupperware Etiquette
On today’s show Dan and Cindy Post Senning take your questions on thanking coworkers for personal help, being addressed by your spouse’s name, Tupperware etiquette and leaving messes in your friend’s car. For sustaining members we talk about sending thank you notes after a funeral. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on teaching manners to kids.
50 min
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Episode #253: Hats and Sunglasses
We take your questions on foul-mouthed sports fans, not wanting your ex’s new girlfriend at the party, addressing a transgender acquaintance and splitting the bill after the fact. For sustaining members we talk about sending “thank you for attending” notes after the wedding. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on hats and sunglasses indoors
50 min
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Episode #252: Potluck
We take your questions on messy summer potlucks, hyphenated names on address labels, shared office space scents and traveling while potty training. For sustaining members we look what to do when someone asks to attend the wedding. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on stealing the thunder at someone’s wedding.
49 min
310
Episode #251: Best Society?
Guest host Peter Post joins Lizzie and we take your questions on baby name haters, wedding shower gifts for strained relations, expensive hairdressers and using your neighbor’s trashcan. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on a 1934 article written by Emily Post on best society. For sustaining members passing etiquette is the topic of the day.
55 min
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Episode #250: Photo Peeking
On today’s show we take your questions on table settings at war, too much to eat, peeking at photo scrolling, a houseguest’s guilt and adults at play, children be warned. Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on notching it up for those closest to us. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about a house divided, when non family stop by for a visit. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
47 min
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Episode #249: Sharing Water Bottles
We take your questions on I accept and I’ve got a vacation, waiting for the invitation, sharing water bottles, and oops I over paid the sitter. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on moms and wedding planning. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about baby-showers and how many thank-yous to issue.
50 min
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Episode #248: Smile
We take your questions on gifts for a second wedding, a worried runner, tips for a solo business owner and preparing when an interviewer is younger than you. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on smiles. For sustaining members your question of the week is about sending late thank you notes during a time of mourning.
47 min
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Episode #247: Clutch Goes Where?
We take your questions on being invited to out of state school events, a work issue that doesn’t involve you, what should a widower call his former in-laws and where to put your clutch at the table. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on three goals to improve etiquette. The sustaining members extra question of the week is about rehearsal dinners and going out for drinks after them.
45 min
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Episode #246: Secret Party
We take your questions on forgetful relatives, showing gratitude for a recommendation, keeping a party secret and asking to buy someone’s home. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment from twitter on embarrassing situations. For sustaining members the extra question of the week is about a birthday party clipboard RSVP at school.
52 min
316
Episode #245: Baby Boom
We take your questions on hosting as a non-parent during a baby boom, group text dilemmas, tipping at the salon, and an awkward guest bathtub routine. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on bridesmaid attire and its costs from the 1927 edition of Etiquette. The sustaining members extra question of the week is about virtual baby showers.
43 min
317
Episode #244: Host and Gym
We take your questions on wind-chime awareness, is it rude to host and gym?, keeping up with the Jones’ at work, and who introduces who to whom with elders. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on housewarmings. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about ordering issues at restaurants.
40 min
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Episode #243: Reading Cards
We take your questions on funeral crashing, getting a boss a birthday gift, reading cards out loud and leaving a health class early. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods. For sustaining members your question of the week is about mothers and daughters tackling the “you look like sisters!” comment.
37 min
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Episode #242: Neighbors and Fences
We take your questions on neighbor fences and finances, awkward ex introductions, tipping with peer pressure and how to deliver thank you notes. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about a dinner party that’s really an engagement party.
51 min
320
Episode #241: Fussing With Flowers
We take your questions on passing ear buds, fussing with flowers as a host, electric bill etiquette and housewarming - do we register? Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods H-O. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about bachelor and bachelorette party planning.
53 min
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Episode #240: To the Eights
We take your questions on saying yes to being a plus-one, how to dress “to the eights”, door buzzer etiquette and wondering if you were thanked for a wedding gift. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods C through H. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about commenting on table manners for YouTube food reviewers.
43 min
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Episode #239: Buffet Timing
We take your questions on wedding invitation wording, including info cards with gifts, when to start eating buffet style and changing shower plans because of changed wedding plans. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods A - C. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about RSVPs when you are the host and guest of honor.
39 min
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Episode #238: Parties for Twins
We take your questions on generous family wanting to celebrate your very private wedding, dealing with gluten free issues among friends, presents and parties for twins and a mother-in law who wants to rename her daughter in law on an invitation. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on men and women stepping out together from the 1922 edition of Etiquette. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about diaper disasters.
50 min
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Episode #237: Eggs with a Spoon
We take your questions on wearing hats when getting treatment, a fork or spoon with scrambled eggs, the case of the missing gift, and how long to wear black when you’re in mourning. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on our newest book! For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about diaper disasters.
52 min
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Episode #236: How to Sign
We take your questions on online photo faux pas, addressing letters to beneficiaries, email signature etiquette, and politely deferring tender topics. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on Consideration Respect and Honesty through the eyes of Kindness Gentleness and Safety. For sustaining members your question of the week is about the proper thank you gift for a work trip.
43 min