We take your questions on late guest requests for a wedding, asking for reassurance on a generous offer, on not being the office know-it-all, a question about who to address a sympathy card to, and an urban workplace myth that is very much alive. For sustaining members we talk about whether or not to purchase flowers for all when a vendor comes to the table. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on “pinkies out” from the rituals of dinner by Margaret Visser.

On today’s show Dan and Cindy Post Senning take your questions on thanking coworkers for personal help, being addressed by your spouse’s name, Tupperware etiquette and leaving messes in your friend’s car. For sustaining members we talk about sending thank you notes after a funeral. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on teaching manners to kids.

We take your questions on foul-mouthed sports fans, not wanting your ex’s new girlfriend at the party, addressing a transgender acquaintance and splitting the bill after the fact. For sustaining members we talk about sending “thank you for attending” notes after the wedding. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on hats and sunglasses indoors

We take your questions on messy summer potlucks, hyphenated names on address labels, shared office space scents and traveling while potty training. For sustaining members we look what to do when someone asks to attend the wedding. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on stealing the thunder at someone’s wedding.

Guest host Peter Post joins Lizzie and we take your questions on baby name haters, wedding shower gifts for strained relations, expensive hairdressers and using your neighbor’s trashcan. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on a 1934 article written by Emily Post on best society. For sustaining members passing etiquette is the topic of the day.

On today’s show we take your questions on table settings at war, too much to eat, peeking at photo scrolling, a houseguest’s guilt and adults at play, children be warned. Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on notching it up for those closest to us. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about a house divided, when non family stop by for a visit. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We take your questions on I accept and I’ve got a vacation, waiting for the invitation, sharing water bottles, and oops I over paid the sitter. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on moms and wedding planning. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about baby-showers and how many thank-yous to issue.

We take your questions on gifts for a second wedding, a worried runner, tips for a solo business owner and preparing when an interviewer is younger than you. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on smiles. For sustaining members your question of the week is about sending late thank you notes during a time of mourning.

We take your questions on being invited to out of state school events, a work issue that doesn’t involve you, what should a widower call his former in-laws and where to put your clutch at the table. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on three goals to improve etiquette. The sustaining members extra question of the week is about rehearsal dinners and going out for drinks after them.

We take your questions on forgetful relatives, showing gratitude for a recommendation, keeping a party secret and asking to buy someone’s home. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment from twitter on embarrassing situations. For sustaining members the extra question of the week is about a birthday party clipboard RSVP at school.

We take your questions on hosting as a non-parent during a baby boom, group text dilemmas, tipping at the salon, and an awkward guest bathtub routine. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on bridesmaid attire and its costs from the 1927 edition of Etiquette. The sustaining members extra question of the week is about virtual baby showers.

We take your questions on wind-chime awareness, is it rude to host and gym?, keeping up with the Jones’ at work, and who introduces who to whom with elders. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on housewarmings. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about ordering issues at restaurants.

We take your questions on funeral crashing, getting a boss a birthday gift, reading cards out loud and leaving a health class early. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods. For sustaining members your question of the week is about mothers and daughters tackling the “you look like sisters!” comment.

We take your questions on neighbor fences and finances, awkward ex introductions, tipping with peer pressure and how to deliver thank you notes. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about a dinner party that’s really an engagement party.

We take your questions on passing ear buds, fussing with flowers as a host, electric bill etiquette and housewarming - do we register? Plus your most excellent feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods H-O. For Awesome Etiquette sustaining members your extra question of the week is about bachelor and bachelorette party planning.

We take your questions on saying yes to being a plus-one, how to dress “to the eights”, door buzzer etiquette and wondering if you were thanked for a wedding gift. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods C through H. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about commenting on table manners for YouTube food reviewers.

We take your questions on wedding invitation wording, including info cards with gifts, when to start eating buffet style and changing shower plans because of changed wedding plans. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on tricky foods A - C. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about RSVPs when you are the host and guest of honor.

We take your questions on generous family wanting to celebrate your very private wedding, dealing with gluten free issues among friends, presents and parties for twins and a mother-in law who wants to rename her daughter in law on an invitation. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on men and women stepping out together from the 1922 edition of Etiquette. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about diaper disasters.

We take your questions on wearing hats when getting treatment, a fork or spoon with scrambled eggs, the case of the missing gift, and how long to wear black when you’re in mourning. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on our newest book! For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about diaper disasters.

We take your questions on online photo faux pas, addressing letters to beneficiaries, email signature etiquette, and politely deferring tender topics. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on Consideration Respect and Honesty through the eyes of Kindness Gentleness and Safety. For sustaining members your question of the week is about the proper thank you gift for a work trip.

We take your questions on a slacking MOH, reaching out to a neighbor’s landlord, following up after RSVP dates and inviting your ex to your wedding. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on six common introduction mistakes. For sustaining members your question of the week considers stopping for pedestrians not in a crosswalk.

We take your questions on eating freely at parties, major shoes off disrespect, turning a family gathering into a baby shower, and a coworker who is seeking spoons. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment from How to Behave Though a Debutante. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about destination and second weddings gifts.

We take your questions on embracing elopements, listing ex's in an obituary, pouncing on mispronunciation and what to do when birthdays happen close together. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on preparing kids for being houseguests. For sustaining members your extra question of the week is about handling an awkward request for money.

Your questions on word vomit, asking a future son-in-law to call you mom, one guest defining an event, and thanking coach after each practice. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on nursing home etiquette. For Awesome Etiquette Sustaining members your extra question of the week is about managers who don’t cover their coughs.

We take your questions on being honest about personal issues, expectations at sip-n-see parties, parking lot etiquette and a question of carrot snatching at the grocery store. Plus your feedback, etiquette salute and a postscript segment on social media’s changing landscape. For sustaining members the question of the week is about ice cream store sampling.