Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relatio...

Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.

Relationships
Sexuality
Self-Improvement
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143 - Mindful Sex and Ethical Porn (with author...
Meditation teacher Jessica Graham answers our questions about mindful sex, ethical porn, and naturally boosting your sex drive.
52 min
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142 - Do You Have Healthy Relationship Expectat...
What makes an expectation healthy or unhealthy? Plus, how to let of expectations that may be mismatched with your partner's.
57 min
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141 - Solving Sexual Incompatibility
We offer stats regarding sexual incompatibility, sexual changes, & how non-monogamy can help sexual differences in a relationship.
50 min
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140 - The Jealousy Survival Guide (with author ...
This week we're speaking with Kitty Chambliss, coach, speaker, and author of the soon to be released Jealousy Survival Guide.
33 min
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139 - Love is (Not) All You Need
We discuss the dangers of what is traditionally "magical" thinking surrounding love and relationships.
43 min
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138 - Conscious Monogamy
We examine being conscious in one's relationships, whether you're monogamous or not and highlight a few unhealthy relationships.
44 min
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137 - Intersectionality and Polyamorous Communi...
We're very pleased to speak with Ruby Bouie Johnson, sex therapist and founder of PolyDallas Millennium
36 min
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136 - Healing Old Wounds and Resentment in Rela...
We cover strategies for both partners to support each other in healing and acceptance in order to release and heal old wounds.
39 min
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135 - What's Your Apology Language?
Gary Chapman, creator of the 5 Love Languages, has come up with another useful tool for communication: the 5 Apology Languages.
32 min
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134 - Legal Protections for Polyamorous Familie...
We speak with lawyer Diana Adams & learn actionable steps poly families/parents can take right now to start protecting themselves.
40 min
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133 - 6 Questions You Must Ask Your New Partner
Multiamory has condensed these "glass ceiling questions" down to 6 topics to ask about when starting a new relationship.
35 min
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132 - The Ethical Slut 20th Anniversary with Ja...
The Ethical Slut, considered to be the "Bible" of alt relationships, is celebrating its 20th anniversary with a new edition!
40 min
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131 - Dumpster Fire Relationships
The dumpster fire relationship: you know it when you see it. Constant fights, endless drama, and an umatched level of emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion. In this episode, we'll discuss signs that your relationship might be a total dumpster fire, how to evaluate whether or not it's time to leave, plus practical advice on escaping a draining relationship with minimal collateral damage.
37 min
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130 - Emotional Labor
This week we're digging in to emotional labor -- the mental and emotional energy required to maintain a relationship. All interpersonal relationships require some sort of emotional labor, so it's not a bad thing. However, problems arise when one person is giving more emotional labor than they are receiving from the other side.
48 min
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129 - Multiamory Answers Your Questions (Vol. II)
This week we are talking about...you! That's right, this week the Multiamory crew tackles the questions that our listeners left on the Multiamory voicemail line. Covered in this episode: -- My girlfriend doesn't want me to fall in love with anyone. How do I casually date without leading people on? -- How do I handle my jealousy of my partner's past relationship with his ex-wife? -- How do I protect my sexual health without imposing strict and burdensome rules on my partner?
56 min
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128 - How To Support Your Partner Through a Bre...
Break ups suck. They suck a little less if you're not the one going through it, but if it's your partner who's just been dumped, then you may find yourself shouldering the burden of some of their suck as well. In this episode we talk about the ways to care for your partner, your self, and your relationship when your partner is going through a break-up or other turbulent period of life.
36 min
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127 - Relationship Agreement Pitfalls
This week we're discussing agreement pitfalls -- common relationship agreements that seem reasonable, but which may cause trouble in the long run. The Multiamory crew has a pretty firm stance against strict rules in relationships, but there are many agreements that fall into a debatable grey area. Is it fair to make sure you and your partner conduct relationships in the exact same way? Is it ethical to ask a partner to check in with you before they get sexual on a date with someone else? Tune in to hear our thoughts on these questions and more.
36 min
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126 - Building Intimacy with Multiamory
41 min
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125 - Researching Non-Monogamous Relationships ...
This week the Multiamory crew gets to pick the brain of researcher, educator, and Ph.D candidate Ryan Witherpsoon. Ryan has specialized in studying consensual non-monogamy, kink, and BDSM, as well as spearheading several research studies on non-traditional relationships. In this episode, we cover the current state of non-monogamy research, particular challenges that arise when studying polyamorous relationships, and the findings of his most recent study on stigma toward consensual non-monogamy.
32 min
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124 - The Dating Advice Girl Talks Polyamory
This week we are welcoming special guest Erin Tillman, a.k.a. The Dating Advice Girl. Erin has coached many singles through the process of creating a dating profile and going on dates without getting burnt out in the process. Even better, Erin is tuned in to the polyamorous and queer communities. She shares with us her pro tips on messaging, first dates, and how much to disclose in your dating profile when you're seeking a non-traditional match (or two).
43 min
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123 - The Science of Happy Relationships
Love and science finally hook up. The results? Sexy. This week we're covering all the things that will make your relationships better, backed by scientific studies. We cover communication, fighting, sex, in-jokes, and more! You can follow along with us here: <a href="https://my.happify.com/hd/the-science-behind-a-happy-relationship/">https://my.happify.com/hd/the-science-behind-a-happy-relationship/</a>
40 min
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122 - Multiamory Answers Your Questions
This week we are talking about...you! That's right, this week the Multiamory crew tackles the questions that our listeners left on the Multiamory voicemail line. If you want to have a question answered on the air, you too can leave a voicemail for us at 678-MULTI-05. Covered in this episode:-- How can a straight, cisgender man ask for cuddles or affectionate touch without it being interpreted as a come-on?-- How can I let go of the need to make sure my husband only ever tries new experiences for the first time with me, instead of with other partners?-- My husband wants our other relationships to be more casual. I want them to be more serious. How do we figure out something that will make both of us happy?
41 min
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121 - Social Media and Relationships
This week, we're talking about the effects of social media on your relationships, and some of the unique challenges presented to non-monogamous relationships. Whether you're creeping on your metamours, or finding yourself nervous about posting openly about your multiple partners, we're here to help you navigate the tricky etiquette and foibles of social media.
36 min
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120 - 7 Strategies for Successful Long Distance...
2/3rds of the Multiamory crew is once again heading off for global adventures, which means it's time to talk about long-distance relationships. In this episode, we highlight seven specific strategies that will help your geographically-challenged relationship to flourish and thrive, including tactics for fostering intimacy, communication, and handling the unique challenges presented to multi-partner relationships.
34 min
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119 - Asexual Polyamory
This week the Multiamory crew is happy to talk with The One True Will, former facilitator of the Gracefully Poly Facebook group. Will has identified as both asexual and polyamorous for a number of years, and on this episode he answers all of our n00b questions about the asexuality spectrum, demisexuality, gender dynamics, and...dragons?!?
38 min