Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relatio...
Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.
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570 - Play as Resistance: featuring Gary Ware f...
This week we're featuring an episode from our friends Emma and Fin at Normalizing Non-Monogamy with guests Gary Ware and our own Jase Lindgren! Emma, Fin, Gary, and Jase talk about play during this interview, how important it is for our health and wellbein
75 min
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569 - Why is Everyone So Tired of Dating?
Today we're tackling a concept that's on a lot of people's minds lately: burnout. Specifically, we'll be discussing dating burnout and fatigue, which seem to be rife on social media, dating apps, articles, what have you. We'll be diving into what the data
70 min
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568 - When You Want More Time But Your Partner ...
Today we're talking about time, both quality and quantity of it, and what to do if you and your partner end up clashing over it. We're going to discuss some research about shared time together as well as some of the different types of time you could be lac
65 min
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567 - Is Toxic Individualism a Real Problem?
Today we're answering a question about toxic individuality, inspired by a post about not being able to share certain things with a partner. We'll touch on the idea of how much is too much information to share with partners about each other, managing compul
47 min
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566 - More Than a Numbers Game: Dating Truths f...
Today we're diving into one of our favorite things - data! We're excited to welcome Sy Dusk and Alexandra Kilpatrick from Feeld. Sy is a data analyst and Alexandra is the head of UX research at Feeld, and both of them helped analyze our co-sponsored resear
73 min
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565 - Results Are In: The Largest Non-Monogamy ...
Today we're excited to be joined by Brett Chamberlin and Dr. Amy Moors to discuss the recent results of the largest non-monogamy survey done to date.
Brett Chamberlin (he/him) is the Founder & Executive Director of OPEN, a grassroots nonprofit advancing
61 min
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564 - Help! My partner's dates are difficult to...
Today we're tackling a listener question from one of our Supercast supporters. We'll be discussing in depth how to help regulate yourself when your partner goes on dates, even if you have a solid self care plan in place.
36 min
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563 - The Episode to Share with Your Parents: R...
This week, we're sharing a remastered version of an episode that aired back in 2023. This is the episode to share with parents, family, or other loved ones when you've come out as non-monogamous to them.
For those who've had a loved one come out recently
52 min
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562 - Polyamory in a Red State with Stacey McLarty
We're excited to invite Stacey McLarty to the show as our guest today!
Stacey is a Texas attorney who supports individuals and chosen families through affirming, wholistic legal services. She combines two decades of legal experience with her own lived ex
52 min
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561 - Level Up Your Polyamory: Common Newbie Mi...
Happy New Year to you all! For our first episode of the new year, we bring you a remastered version of an older episode from back in 2016 about five mistakes newbies make in polyamory.
Get the accompanying PDF on Supercast here: <a href="https://multiamo
46 min
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560 - I'm Solo Poly, But I Want More: Listener Q&A
Today we're tackling two listener questions about being solo polyamorous and wanting a more entangled or anchored relationships, either with existing partners or while seeking such a relationship. We'll talk about the feasibility of escalating existing par
46 min
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559 - The Struggle of Loneliness
We're covering the topic of loneliness in today's episode. In 2023, the U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health crisis, and the physical health risks associated with loneliness are indeed staggering. We're going to dive into why loneliness
68 min
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558 - This Is Your Brain on (Jealousy) Drugs
Today we're bringing back a remastered episode from way back in the day. We're going to be revisiting our first episode about jealousy, diving into the science behind it, why we feel it in certain situations, what's happening inside our bodies, and some ti
71 min
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557 - Is Sexual Rejection Hurting Your Relation...
Today we're exploring rejection, specifically sexual rejection, and how it can affect our relationships. We'll first get into rejection itself and bids for connection, then discuss why we struggle with this. We'll go over Emily Nagoski's Dual Control model
47 min
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556 - How Much is Too Much Information About My...
Today we're tackling a listener question about sharing information within polyamorous relationships. We'll be talking about how much information is okay to share in relationships and how to make sharing it easier so everyone involved retains their autonomy
44 min
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Let's Have Some Fun For a Change! See You On Th...
Get your tickets now before prices go up at the end of January!
Tickets and details here: <a href="https://multiamory.link/recess2026">multiamory.link/recess2026</a>
3 min
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555 - Reclaiming Spirituality as a Queer, Polya...
We're thrilled to be welcoming back Brian G. Murphy as a guest to the show!
Brian is an organizer, author, and certified relationship coach helping LGBTQ+ and polyamorous people build thriving relationships on their own terms... without shame or "should"s
60 min
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554 - Persuasion or Coercion? Navigating Polyam...
Today we're talking about polyamory under duress (PUD). Being non-monogamous comes with its own set of challenges, and sometimes when external pressure or internal conflicts can make it even more stressful. Dealing with polyamory under duress can be very d
51 min
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553 - What Can Swingers and Polyamorists Learn ...
We're excited to present a collaborative episode with Mr. and Mrs. Jones of We Gotta Thing podcast!
Mr. & Mrs. Jones are the hosts of the We Gotta Thing podcast. They are social swingers who place the highest importance on their primary relationship whil
81 min
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552 - Why Your Partner Doesn’t Plan Stuff (And ...
Today we're talking about planfulness, or thinking ahead and planning things like scheduling time together, managing life's obligations, or making date or travel plans. Some of us struggle with this, while others are skilled at it. We'll be discussing the
58 min
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551 - My Partner Dates People Just Like Me: Lis...
Today we're tackling a question from a listener about managing jealousy and fear around a relationship where your partner dates other people like you. We'll be discussing insecurity, jealousy, self-love, and more while we break down this question and try t
53 min
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550 - We Still Play Medieval Dating Games
Today we're joined by a special guest we've had on the show before, Professor Annalisa Castaldo, to explore 'The Art of Courtly Love,' a medieval manuscript written 900 years ago that resembles a strange combination of romance novel, pickup artist manual,
55 min
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549 - What's Really Driving Your Love Life: The...
Today we're discussing the Eight Worldly Concerns, or four things we desperately chase and four we desperately avoid, that have driven human behavior for more than 2500 years.
We'll go over the origin and history of these eight concerns, why they matter
51 min
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548 - Conversations to Have Before Moving in To...
Today we're dusting off an old episode about cohabiting with a partner. In it, we talk about why people move in together, questions to ask yourself about possibly moving in with a partner, and of course, conversations to have with your potential living par
63 min
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Help us make history: The biggest non-monogamy ...
Participate in this anonymous 20-30-minute survey here: <a href="https://chapmanu.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_3qvDjh6xlTrjEZE?Source=MAFeedDrop">Chapman University Study</a>
This year, we've partnered with OPEN and Dr. Amy Moors at Chapman University,
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