Dear Young Married Couple

Marriage Counselors, Adam King, MA, and Karissa King, MA, talk with couples, pastors, and therapists about strengthening your marriage as a busy couple. From communication and finances to parenting, building trust, and cultivating godly desire and intimacy in the bedroom, this podcast equips you with tools to deepen your connection and create a thriving marriage.

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Taking RISKS Together as a Married Couple w/ Mi...
This episode was recorded from the Island of Roatan, Honduras. Missionaries Steven and Rachel Jones decided to follow the call of God and make the move from California to Roatan to become missionaries after just a few years of marriage. Listen in to hear...
66 min
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DESIRE: Reflections from a Single Christian Wom...
“The biggest misstep that we've taken is that we’ve flattened this robust, multi-dimensional, layered, nuanced experience of our sexuality into a one-dimensional act of sex. We’ve flattened this experience into a set do's and don'ts.⁠ ♥️⁠ It’s much easie...
48 min
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3 DANGERS of Being Sexually Closed (The CHURCH,...
The issue of shame, not just about pornography, but shame around sexuality in general, is probably the #1 issue we see in our counseling office. Some are coming into counseling because of sexual issues or they’re coming in for other reasons and, as we di...
34 min
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The FORMULA for Falling in Love and STAYING in ...
In this episode, Kimberly Beam-Holmes, founder of PIES University and CEO of Marriage Helper, shares the 4-step formula for falling in love and staying in love: Attraction Acceptance Attachment Aspiration She also shares important aspects of attraction ...
50 min
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What You Didn't Know about the FIVE LOVE LANGUA...
We can only hope that you will be as blessed as we were by this interview we had with the New York Times best-selling author, Dr. Gary Chapman. Dr. Chapman is best known for his book "The Five Love Languages", but many of you were curious about things th...
36 min
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Marriage and HISPANIC Culture w/ Adriel and Mag...
🎉 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT! Coming to an Amazon near you in February: FUNDAMENTOS Baraja de cartas 🎉♥You guys! We can't tell you how excited we are for this project to come to fruition. So many of you have asked about the DYMC card decks being available in Spani...
74 min
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3 BLENDED FAMILY Pitfalls that Can Destroy a Ma...
3 Blended Family Pitfalls that Can Destroy a Marriage: Putting your children before your spouse Reactive instead of proactive communication Thinking you’re alone in the storm Cynthia shares practical solutions for each of these challenges in this episode...
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DISCONNECTION's Powerful INVITATION w/ George F...
"But when you turn off your emotions to the people you love, all it does is create distance. Especially us, as men. We tend to turn off all emotion, even when we don’t need to. That used to be me, but it all changed after I found myself on Ground Zero as...
46 min
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The Day I (Adam) almost Died and What I Learned...
In this episode, Adam and Karissa reflect back on October 8, 2007 - a date that Adam was 10 minutes from death and called Karissa while stuck in the cab of an old truck at the bottom of a 40-ft ravine (while his lung filled up with blood). Listen in to h...
32 min
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A New Year's Resolution for My SEX LIFE? Say Wh...
Every year between 12/26 and 12/31, we sit down with intentionality and map out new habits for each area of our life and marriage - including our sex life! Hope you'll join us LIVE on 1/15/21 @ 5:30pm where we'll share a template for YOUR goal setting se...
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Do these 5 THINGS to Stay CONNECTED This Week D...
Don't get so caught up with the holiday hurry that you miss out on sweet moments with each other. Try these 5 things to stay connected with your lover this week!   Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyou...
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QUANTITY vs. QUALITY: One Couple’s Journey to U...
In this episode, we interview Nick and Amy McKinlay, the creators of the Christian marriage app, @ultimateintimacyapp. This couple figured out how to attain and maintain ultimate intimacy, so they created an app for it so that they could help many more c...
50 min
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4 LOVES: Storge. Philia. Eros. Agape. (Nerding ...
4 LOVES Crewneck Sweaters available here.  ♥️⁠ In English, we can love vegan tacos, our golden doodle, Christmas lights, Jeeps, our spouse, and God -- but we call it all "love". The Bible, however, uses FOUR different Greek concepts of love:⁠♥️⁠1. storge...
25 min
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LOVE thy BODY w/ Nancy Pearcey, MA - Author, Ap...
In this interview, we interview Christian apologist Nancy Pearcey on her new book, Love Thy Body. Yes, the title is a little shocking to some, but it is, as she argues, the biblical point of view. The body is created by God and is good. Down through the ...
71 min
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Going to SCHOOL as a Married Couple w/ Curtis H...
"If you’re hesitant in moving forward with your relationship because it might take away from your degree, then you might need to take a step back and think about several other things going on in your relationship.⁠ ♥️ When you make the decision to get ma...
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The GOOD GIRL'S Guide to Great SEX w/ Sheila Wr...
“My biggest piece of advice for the wedding night: Don’t aim for intercourse, aim for arousal.⁠♥️⁠Christian women experience sexual pain at twice the rate of the general population… so this is OUR problem. I think a large part of that is due to the rushi...
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No FRIENDS? Listen to this ASK Episode w/ A+K
We all need connection and we aren't designed to get that solely from our spouse, hence the reason we got asked this question.♥️⁠In this episode, we share some easy-to-learn tips for gaining friends and keeping them. ♥️⁠ Here's the link to How to Win Fri...
17 min
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ASK A+K: "What if your spouse wasn't taught to ...
In today's episode, we featured another question from YOU! "How can a spouse learn to be more empathetic when they were not shown empathy growing up?" We have three answers for you, so listen in on this quick 10-minute episode! :)   Are you enjoying thes...
10 min
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How to OUTGROW PORN w/ Drew Boa, MA, Author and...
"My generation was raised by pornography. When it comes to learning sexuality, porn was our parent. Porn was our substitute girlfriend. Porn was our Sex Ed teacher. More importantly, it became our pacifier.⁠" - Drew Boa, MA Drew Boa is passionate about h...
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For BUSY Couples: How to Avoid BURNOUT w/ Pasto...
To all of the busy couples in our tribe: this one is for you! Pastor Yuri Sangueza and Dr. Cami Allard Sangueza, a Pastor-Psychologist couple in Norway, join us in a discussion about avoiding burnout in your marriage and it's chalk-full of excellent tips...
65 min
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ASK A+K: How OFTEN should a married couple have...
This is a multifaceted question (and a question that we receive a lot here at DYMC), but we cover what the answer to this question ultimately comes down to in today’s ASK episode on the #DYMCpodcast.⁠   Are you enjoying these mini ASK episodes with your ...
7 min
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ASK A+K: Premarital Sexual BOUNDARIES for Chris...
"In the premarital stage, what are some good boundaries to have sexually?" When we get this question, we like to use a model called "The Dating Ladder" to answer it. We got the idea from our friends over at Moral Revolution (they dubbed it "The Intimacy ...
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ASK A+K: How do you know you've put God SECOND ...
One of you asked this question on our SpeakPipe, and we thought it was important to clarify a better question to ask. Listen in to hear the better question and let us know your thoughts by commenting below.   Record YOUR question for our next ask episode...
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The Sexual STANDOFF w/ Dr. Morgan Cutlip
"Don’t wait to give until you get... It goes both ways: don’t wait to have sex with your partner until they’re doing all the things outside the bedroom. On the other hand, don’t wait to do things outside the bedroom until you’re getting the sex you want ...
36 min
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Sexual AROUSAL and PAIN Disorders: Problems and...
"I worked with women when they’d come in for their annuals and I'd ask them, 'How is it going with your sex life?' Sometimes, they would tense up and wouldn't want to talk about it. Then, I started thinking to myself, 'Wow! Sexual dysfunction is far larg...
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