Every couple (and every individual spouse) has certain "triggers" which can spark a bad mood or an argument. Learning to identify those triggers is the first step toward healthier communication and conflict resolution. In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Guy and Amber Lia who authored the new book, "Marriage Triggers." This conversation could help every couple learn to navigate "Marriage Triggers" in a healthier way.

One of the most common marriage mistakes occurs when the marriage takes on a parent-child dynamic between spouses instead of treating each other as partners and equals. This authoritative dynamic can happen in a variety of different situations, and some couples fall into it without even realizing it. In this episode, Dave and Ashley discuss how to recognize this negative dynamic and how to replace it with a healthier partnership.

Every marriage faces disagreements because every spouse has his/her own personality, perspective, and preferences. In this episode, Dave and Ashley have an important conversation about the keys to keeping unity and peace in marriage even when the husband and wife have two different preferences. Examples will be shared from small issues like "What to watch on Netflix" to major, life-changing choices like "Whether to have more children" and "Should we make a career change."

Marriage only works when a couple recognizes and respects the God-given "laws" which make a marriage thrive. In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Jimmy Evans about his new book, "The Four Laws of Love." Jimmy Evans (along with his wife Karen) founded MarriageToday and he is one of the world's leading voices in marriage ministry. This conversation will equip couples with new tools and perspectives to help their marriage grow stronger.

Intimacy has come to be a codeword for "sex." Sex is obviously an important part of marriage, but true intimacy in marriage goes far beyond just what's happening in the bedroom. In this episode, Dave and Ashley explore practical ways to bring more intimacy to your conversations, your daily routine and every aspect of your marriage (including your sex life).

Every couple comes from two different words to a certain extent. Even when both spouses grew up in the same area, cultural differences within each family can create obstacles in a marriage. How do you navigate the compromises and respect each other's differences while finding unity in the marriage? In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Terry and Keewani Cook who come from two different parts of the world and have navigated some extreme cultural differences to find deeper intimacy. This episode also includes a special offer available at www.Compassion.com/marriage

We all have bad days. In those moments (or seasons) when your spouse is discouraged, frustrated, grumpy or disillusioned, you have a unique opportunity to help bring out his/her best or bring out the worst. We'll address some practical and Biblical principles and communication tactics to change the tone in your marriage from negativity to one of peace and joy.

By popular demand, we're dedicating an entire episode to the many questions we receive related to oral sex. What does the Bible say about it? What if one spouse loves it and one spouse is uncomfortable with it? Join us for an honest, uninhibited conversation about oral sex in marriage.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis interview special guest Debra Fileta who is a licensed counselor, podcaster, and author of the new book "Love In Every Season." Dave, Ashley, and Debra discuss the shifting dynamics in every season of marriage and how to make healthy adjustments so a couple can overcome the hardships and enjoy the unique opportunities every season brings.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis explore the importance of finding friends who will strengthen your marriage while distancing yourself from friends who might be harming your marriage. In the Q&A portion of the podcast, Dave and Ashley address a question of "Friends Without Benefits" referring to the dynamic of a sexless marriage and how to rekindle intimacy

On the episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis celebrate the importance of laughter and humor in marriage. Especially in the difficult seasons, it's important to keep a sense of humor and lighten up the tension with playfulness. Dave and Ashley talk about ways to take your marriage very seriously but also enjoying the serious business of fun, joy and laughter in your relationship.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis explore the difficult dynamics some couples face when they're experiencing grief, loss or disappointment around Christmas. The process of grieving can either bring more division or more unity to a marriage depending on how a couple responds to pain and loss. Dave and Ashley give some practial and Biblical tips for finding strength and unity in seasons of grieving.

On this episode of the Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis tackle the provocative and often undiscussed topic of sexual fantasies within marriage. They address some common misconceptions about sexual fantasies, healthy and Biblical boundaries for sexual expression, and the God-given freedom couples should enjoy to be creative and playful in the bedroom.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis discuss the delicate dynamic of navigating a marriage where one spouse wants a divorce. Biblically and practically, Dave and Ashley talk through specific solutions for trying to heal a marriage in crisis while also providing help and perspective to those whose marriages ultimately end in divorce.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis tackle an intimate question from a listener about fetishes in the bedroom. They discuss the psychological causes of fetishes, the benefits of playfulness in the bedroom and also the potential pitfalls of unhealthy expressions of sexual intimacy in marriage.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis address a rising issue in marriages called Sleep Divorce. Together they discuss why this is becoming more of an issue, the repercussions it can have on your marriage, and some solutions to common causes.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley discuss how marriage, just like a car, can have warning lights to show you that there could be a bigger problem. Learn how to watch for the warning signs in your marriage so it can continue to strengthen and grow.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis discuss the meaning and benefits of marriage. We are surrounded by a culture that no longer believes in the institute of marriage and is asking the question, "why get married?" Knowing the importance and meaning of marriage will strengthen the relationship between you and your spouse.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis talk about the importance of having "the talk" with your kids and how and when to start the conversation. Talking about sex with your children can be difficult, but it is necessary and crucial in today's world.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis dive into the topic of screen time in marriage and give helpful tools to finding a balance to your marriage. Whether it is being on your phone, watching tv, or playing video games, it should never take the place of your spouse or your time together.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis host guests, Richard and Barbie Armenta, to talk about how to navigate dating and remarrying after divorce. Whether it is your second or third marriage, God's desire is for your relationship to thrive and succeed.

In this episode of The Naked Marriage Podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis talk about how you communicate with your spouse, and the tone of your words can determine the health of your marriage. The Bible tells us there is life and death in the tongue so, Dave and Ashley give helpful tools to turn careless and flippant words into intentional and kind words that will build up your spouse rather than tear them down.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis talk about how being a happy couple isn't a matter of luck or compatibility. It's a matter of implementing specific habits that develop a healthy environment where even on your worst day, you can have a happy marriage.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis talk through the physical expectations couples bring in to marriage when it comes to sex. Guest expert and women's specialist, Dr. Becky Allen, gives tools and solutions to those that are about to have sex for the first time, have trouble reaching orgasm, or are experiencing pain during sex. There are solutions and ways for you to have enjoyable sex with your spouse.

On this episode of The Naked Marriage podcast, Dave and Ashley Willis talk about the expectations couples bring into their marriage when it comes to sex. Whether you are about to get married, newlyweds, have been married for years, or are remarried, we all have preconceived notions as to what sex “should” be like, and sometimes it’s not always quite what you expected.