Jillian on Love
Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself.
Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you.
Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships.
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The 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes and How to Avoid ...
Are you single and frustrated about it? In this episode, Jillian shares the 5 biggest and most common mistakes singles makes that sabotage their chances for a committed and healthy partnership plus how to avoid them. You do not want to miss this episode.
37 min
102
On the Brink of Divorce, How to Love Yourself M...
In this special episode, Jillian takes some of your most intense and riveting questions and answers them, in detail.
48 min
103
How to Navigate Dating and Breaking up with Anx...
Dating as a sensitive person and/or abandonment wounds can feel very daunting. In this episode, Jillian shares exactly how to navigate dating so that you honor yourself and protect your boundaries. She also shares the most common struggle the anxiously attached have when it comes to a breakup, and how to face that struggle with more grace and calmness.
46 min
104
How to Talk to Your Partner about Social Media ...
Jillian welcomes Connor Beaton, best-selling author, host of the podcast ManTalks, and Men's coach to thousands of men trying to better their lives. In this illuminating episode, Jillian and Connor discuss the biggest struggles men face today, and the struggles those who date them experience. They discuss why people get addicted to porn, and how to discuss social media and pornography boundaries with man you're dating.
76 min
105
Red Flags: What you must know AND talk about be...
Jillian breaks down what you MUST know about someone before you commit your heart and life to them, as well as the important conversatons every couple should have before they take their relationship to the next level. If this was taught in school, there would be less divorces.
41 min
106
Boundaries: "Special" Friendships Outside of Yo...
In this unique episode, Jillian answers a listener's complex question about what she should do if she feels threatened by one of her partner's friendships. What Jillian says might surprise you, and it will definitely help you navigate how to approach this and similar circumstances in your own relationship or future partnership.
32 min
107
How to Sustain Physical Attraction in a Relatio...
In this powerful episode, Jillian dares to go where other's don't. She explains the habits and things we do unconsciously that impact physical attraction and desire. With both compassion and sense of humor, Jillian shares what we need to stop doing and start doing if we want to remain attracted to each other in a committed relationship.
44 min
108
How to Repair With Your Partner
The health and vitality of a relationship rests heavily on our ability to repair after an argument and disconnection. In this episode, Jillian breaks down "the repair process" she has helped hundreds of couples use to restore connection, peace and harmony in their relationships. Note that you can apply this to ANY relationship,
38 min
109
The Truth About Chemistry
In this much awaited episode, Jillian breaks down sexual chemistry. She discusses what it is, the difference between healthy chemisty and unhealthy chemistry, and what to consider if your "picker" is off so you can re-wire yourself for healthy love.
52 min
110
A Relationship's Impact on Our Mental Health
The quality of our lives are determined by the quality of our relationships. Strong relationships make us strong, and weak, unhealthy relationships make us sick. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Jillian discusses the impact of relationships on our mental well-being, when to leave the situation-ship, what to consider before beginning couple's work, and her tried and true tips and strategies for nurturing mental health.
55 min
111
The Chaser and The Runner: the Pattern that Des...
Jillian shares Part 2 of one of her most popular episodes: The Chaser and The Runner. How do two people who love each other get trapped in a pattern of anxiety and avoidance? How can they break free of it? Jillian shares the truth about this dynamic and how easily it can erupt between two people. Get ready to learn things about this pattern you have never learned before.
40 min
112
Mother's Day Special: The Mother Archetype and ...
In honor of Mother's Day, Jillian dedicates this episode to all the women who have decided - for various reasons, not to become a mother and to those who cannot.
33 min
113
A Look Inside Vanderpump Rules: Tom and Arianna...
As a special treat for our listeners we're unlocking an episode of JOL +. Jillian shares her perspective on the recent cheating scandal in Bravo's popular reality TV show, Vanderpump Rules.
27 min
114
A Mature Relationship: 3 Skills to Master Your ...
A healthy and secure relationship is a mature relationship. Yet, why do so many people struggle to create this? In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches that it boils down to 3 main skills that we need to practice and develop if we want to master our love loves and have healthier relationships. Get out the pen and paper - get ready to learn a lot!
36 min
115
From Rock Bottom to Thriving: A story of transf...
Jillian interviews Doug Bobst, a former felon and drug addict who transformed his life. Today he is an award winning personal trainer, author, speaker and podcaster. His story from victim to hero and the unlikely guide who helped him transform is one that will both touch and inspire you. Plus, Jillian coaches him on his love life! Not to be missed.
64 min
116
Ghosted: The Dark Side of Dating
In this powerful episode, Jillian discusses ghosting and online dating. She clarifies what ghosting is (and isn't) why she believes it's on the rise, why people do it, and what to do to protect yourself from it as well as what to do IF it happens.
37 min
117
The Myth of The Conscious Relationship
"Conscious Relationship" and "Conscious Partner" seem to be what everyone is looking for these days. People are sick and tired of being ghosted, toxic relationships, and feeling under valued by love interests. But what exactly is a conscious relationship? What does it mean to be a conscious partner? Is it just another fairtytale ideal we have projected onto the complicated reality of love and partnership? In this detailed episode, Jillian explores this phenomenon, busts myths, and explains what a Conscious Relationship really means.
43 min
118
The Silent Destroyer of A Relationship
43 min
119
Surviving Infidelity and How to Grow as a Coupl...
Many of us do not have examples of enduring love. Kerrilynn and John and been married for almost 30 years, having met when they were young, wild, and immature. They did everything that we're not "supposed" to do in the beginning, and yet, they were able to get through the toughest of circumstances and heal their trauma, together. In this powerful episode, Jillian goes deep with couple who truly represent what it means to love and grow.
52 min
120
The Truth about Love-Bombing
Love-bombing is a popular term in the current zeitgeist, but what does it actually mean, and what do you need to do and NOT do, to prevent it ftrom happenig to you? What Jillian shares about this dating phenomenon will surprise you.
24 min
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Ending the cycle of toxic and abusive relations...
In this powerful episode, Jillian outlines the differences between unhealthy relationships and abuse, and how BOTH present similar patterns. She shares some of the signs of relationship toxicity and what it means to value honor and respect in a relationship. Jillian also shares her personal story with an abusive partner, and the hard truths one must face within themselves to heal from an abusive or unhealthy relationship.
56 min
122
Lewis Howes on Transforming your Self-Doubt and...
Jillian welcomes Lewis Howes, New York Times best-selling author, keynote speaker, industry-leading show host, and former pro-athlete, to the podcast. Their conversation will guaranteed inspire you! Lewis vulnerably shares his journey from feeling stuck, insecure and filled with-doubt to the freedom of self-acceptance and internal peace that is his emotional center of gravity today.The relationship we have with ourselves has tremedous influence over the relationship we have with others, and Lewis details how he was able to heal his most important relationship - the one with self.
77 min
123
When Your Partner is Depressed: What to do to h...
One of the most frequently asked questions Jillian receives is: "How do I help my depressed partner?" Although every situation is different and each circumstance is unique and nuanced, Jillian explains what are some of the things you can do AND stop doing if your siginificant other is struggling with a bout of depression. What you'll learn in this episode will likely suprise you.
17 min
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From Single and Lost to Marriage with Anna Gold...
"Anna Goldstein is an OG coach, having been in the business long before it was trendy. She was also Jillian's first coach, and without Anna, Jillian wouldn't be where she is today. In this riveting episode, Jillian and Anna discuss how Anna went from being completely lost in life and love to finding purpose and a life partner. They get real about the ups and downs of long term relationship, and how we can bring more self-awareness and minfulness to partnership. Whether you're single or have been married for decades, this episode is a must listen. Find Anna's Book: Be Bold: A Guid to Unbreakable Confidence"
73 min
125
Surviving Valentine’s Day Heartbroken: How to l...
It’s unfortunate that Valentine's Day triggers loneliness in so many people, and it can be particularly difficult for those who are trying to get over a relationship that ended. Jillian dedicates this episode to helping all the people who feel rejected, who are stuck obsessing over someone, and who are struggling to let go and move on.
30 min