ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
751
132: BEING BRAVE
Facing those skeletons in your closet can be hard. - This week Tony shares about getting his girlfriend pregnant in college and then paying for the abortion. - This event still impacts him 21 years later. -
43 min
752
131: BIRDS AND THE BEES
Is sex a stigma in your marriage? Has the past held you back from completely enjoying the amazing bond you could be having with your spouse? - Sex ed or learning about the birds and the bees are an integral part of how you view sex in your mar...
43 min
753
130: JESUS IN MY BEDROOM
The lights are dim in your bedroom and in the corner there is a blue chair. Jesus is sitting there. - He is omnipresent in your life and right now he is waiting for you to allow Him into your sex life. - Unfortunately,
40 min
754
129: A NEW NORMAL
Illness, sickness, injuries, and other long term ailments can change the dynamics of your marriage. - When this happens you have to adjust to having "A New Normal." - In this episode we share how you have to re-learn all of your intimacies in...
44 min
755
128: PLAYING ON THE SAME TEAM
The wedding bells ring, you say your "I do's", and the honeymoon is bliss. You're married, the two of you have become ONE and yet you're not on the same TEAM. - Shortly after that blissful day you find yourselves on opposite sides working agai...
42 min
756
127: ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE
This past week we received an email from a listener asking why her husband won't come right out and ask for sex. - There is cuddling, kissing, and yet he won't come out and ask for sex. - Join Tony and Alisa as they talk about the fear of rej...
42 min
757
126: LAUGHTER FOR THE SOUL
As you sit in your living room laughing from the depth of your belly, tears rolling down your face, the world is left behind and all you see is your spouse smiling and laughing too. - Both of you enjoying a moment that has pushed aside the eme...
40 min
758
125: FANTASIZE WITH ME
It's natural to fantasize, but are you fantasizing about your spouse or someone else? - Fantasies can be a great way to spice things up in your marriage by changing things up. - The opposite side is that they can also tear down the foundation...
38 min
759
124: JOINT OR SEPARATE CHECKING ACCOUNTS
What kind of checking account do you have? - The truth is that finances are always going to be a part of your marriage and how you come to handle money will color many aspects of your married years. -
42 min
760
123: THE BATTLEFIELD
Men it's time! It's time to show your wife how much you honor and cherish her. - In this world where battles are raging against marriage every minute of the day your wife needs to know that the two of you are on the battle field together. -
42 min
761
122: SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER
Many of us don't like confrontation. To avoid a confrontation we'll us different strategies. - One of the most damaging is by saying one thing to our spouses with the full intention of doing something else. -
38 min
762
121: RESILIENCE
This week's podcast comes from our son and little league baseball. - We're sure that many of you can relate to kids and their athletic endevours. - Early in the season, his first season playing baseball, things were not going so well.
38 min
763
120: OH THE PLACES YOU’LL GO
Summer is here and it's time to add some adventure into your physical intimacy. This is a lighthearted look at many different places that you can have sex. Get out of your "comfort zone" and have some fun this summer.
30 min
764
119: WHY CAN’T WE HAVE A BABY?
This weeks podcast is about finding your way back to intimacy after struggling for years with infertility. - We share ideas that we have learned from friends of ours who have found intimacy in their marriage after years of struggling with infe...
48 min
765
118: GREAT EXPECTATIONS
Great expectations... All of us have them. - The way we want things done, the way we want those in our life to do what we want and yet, it doesn't always turn out the way we want. - What do we do then? - Sometimes we lash out,
40 min
766
117: WHERE IS GOD IN MY MARRIAGE
Who is at the center of your marriage? - Have you thought about that. - Really taken the time to sit down with your spouse and discuss who is at the center of your marriage. - As we prepare for the 3rd annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge we a...
43 min
767
116: MAD, PASSIONATE, LOVE
You have a choice everyday to either have Mad, Passionate, Extraordinary Love or Mediocrity love. - No where is it said or written that you have to "settle" for anything in your marriage. - Just because you've been married for (insert years m...
40 min
768
115: THE GRASS ISN’T ALWAYS GREENER
Over this last week we have heard from many couples that are struggling with emotional affairs, separation or even divorce. - It's been frustrating for us to hear the lines spouses are saying during these times such as: -
59 min
769
114: THE SIMPLE LIFE
Our house saga is finally coming to a close as we wrap up the short sale. - Over the last 4 months we've had the opportunity to really think about those things that serve as a distraction to our marriage. -
42 min
770
113: WANDERING EYES
We've all done it, somebody walks across your path and you look. Then maybe you take another one or two looks. - Unfortunately, most of the time our spouse catches us looking. This leads to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity in our marriage...
41 min
771
112: FLAMES BURING BRIGHT
Love is an overused word in our society. - We love ice cream and we love our spouses, but how did God really desire for us to love our spouses? - There are three different types of love used in the bible: raya, ahava and dod. -
41 min
772
111: HIGH DESIRE, LOW DESIRE, WHAT ARE YOU
One of you wants sex all the time, one of you not so much-what's wrong with this picture? - Nothing! - You are just like the rest of us, dealing with differing levels of desire within your marriage. - What's a couple to do?
50 min
773
110: TRUST
It hurts when someone violates our trust, especially when that someone is the person that we are married to. - Building trust is not easy and it's not automatic either. - Building trust requires both a husband and a wife to be willing to draw...
41 min
774
109: HONORING THE VOW
What do your vows mean to you? - In our society when everything seems disposable The Vow made us stop and wonder how would we handle a catastrophic incident in our marriage. - Do the words "as long as life shall last" really mean that?
38 min
775
108: CAN YOU FOCUS NOW
When was the last time you sat with your spouse with nothing on. No TV, computer, phones, iPad or other electronics? - In today's show Tony & Alisa discuss how turning all the electronics off is helping them to focus in on each other more.
45 min