Talking It Out

Uncomfortable topics, unconventional viewpoints and thought-provoking conversations about life, love, relationships and more with some of your favorites from Bachelor Nation. Take a deep dive into critical subjects addressed on your favorite Bachelor franchise series with Bachelor Nation's Mike Johnson and Dr. Bryan Abasolo. They’ll pick up right where the show leaves off to break down topical issues, cultural moments and personal stories that are just too big to fit the screen. Join the conversation along with our special guest every week as we learn, reflect and talk it out!

Society & Culture
Relationships
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Brendan Shares His Story, Teases ‘Men Tell All’...
Brendan, who made it far on “The Bachelorette,” was a mystery to the fans. He joined Mike and Bryan to share more of his story and details we didn’t get to see on the show. He talks about his mixed race and nontraditional family life, and why a healthy relationship is so important to him. He also spills about his relationship with Katie and what to expect at “Men Tell All.”  Plus, what would you do if you saw your friend cheat? Mike and Bryan weigh in on that topic and more on today’s hot takes. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
65 min
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Mike P. on the Judgment He’s Faced as an Athlet...
Fan favorite Mike P. from this season of “The Bachelorette” opens up to Mike and Bryan about his choice to remain a virgin until marriage and the judgment he faced during his time as a professional athlete. He shares details of his family life growing up, the hypersensitivity he has about sex due to his sisters, and what he dealt with in the past from teammates in the locker room. Plus, what do men wish women knew? Mike and Bryan weigh in on that topic and more in today’s hot takes. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
44 min
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Franco Lacosta on His Role in the Bachelor Fran...
Bachelor Nation’s favorite guest Franco Lacosta opens up to Mike and Bryan about what led him to the Bachelor franchise. He reveals the “Bachelor” couples he knew would end up together and who his Bachelor Nation crush is. He also talks about his childhood in Puerto Rico, fluid sexuality, and why he’s always felt comfortable in his own skin. Plus, is lingerie canceled? Mike and Bryan weigh in on that and more on today’s hot takes. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
60 min
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Mike & Bryan Discuss What They Learned About Th...
In today’s “Talking It Out,” Mike and Bryan are diving into fan questions, opening up about everything from the worst headline they’ve seen about themselves to the one piece of advice they’d give to single guys. Bryan discusses the instant bond he felt with Rachel on “The Bachelorette,” and both Mike and Bryan reveal the biggest regret they have from their time on the show.   Plus, the hosts weigh in on social media and the effect it has on the beauty standards people set for themselves.  Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
57 min
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Jason Tartick on Being a Supportive Partner and...
Bachelor Nation fan favorite Jason Tartick opens up to Mike and Bryan about life with fiancée Kaitlyn Bristowe and what it’s like being with such a successful woman. Jason and Bryan both discuss how they knew Kaitlyn and Rachel were “the one” and how they feel about gender roles when it comes to their relationships.   Plus, Jason shares how hard Kaitlyn worked while on “Dancing with the Stars,” and discusses the ways they continue to support each other’s dreams. Jason, Mike, and Bryan also talk about how they deal with online bullies. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
54 min
81
Exclusive: Bachelorette Katie Thurston Goes In-...
Bachelorette Katie Thurston opens up to Mike and Bryan about the sexual trauma she experienced and reveals why she felt compelled to tell her very personal story on the show. Katie discusses why it’s so important to normalize these conversations and talks about how learning from her past experiences has helped her have a healthy relationship with sex now. Plus, Katie, Mike, and Bryan discuss why it’s so important to share past trauma with your partner and why healthy communication is a must. Katie also shares what it was like finally telling her mother about her past experience. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence and needs help, please visit rainn.org.  Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
50 min
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Tayshia Adams’ Father, Desmond, Stops By
It’s almost Father’s Day, and what better way to celebrate than with the amazing father of former “Bachelorette” Tayshia Adams? Desmond Adams joins Mike and Bryan and shares what Tayshia was like as a child and reveals how he found out about Tayshia going on “The Bachelor.” Desmond also explains how he knew that Colton Underwood wasn’t the one during their hometown date on “The Bachelor.” Then, he shares what he thinks about his future son-in-law Zac Clark.  Plus, a special surprise from Tayshia!  Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
51 min
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Bibiana on the Depression She Faced After ‘Bach...
Bachelor Nation’s Bibiana Julian opens up about falling into a deep depression after coming off “Bachelor in Paradise.” She reveals the steps she took to begin healing and why she’s working to help others live their best lives as well. She also shares what she learned about herself watching the show back.Plus, would you rekindle a romance with an ex? Mike, Bryan, and Bibiana weigh in on that topic and more in today’s hot takes.Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
53 min
84
Man Chat: Getting Real About Cancel Culture
Mike and Bryan dive into the topic of cancel culture, discussing how severe an action must be to justify someone being “canceled.” They also debate the difference between cancel culture and accountability culture.Plus, does canceling someone actually teach them a lesson? Or is there a better way to hold someone accountable? Mike and Bryan get into it all.Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
55 min
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Bachelor Nation’s Tammy Ly Gets Real About ‘Hav...
Fan favorite Tammy Ly joins Mike and Bryan to talk about the modern-day work culture and the effect it has on our relationships. Mike and Bryan discuss their views on the woman making more money than the man in a relationship, and Tammy shares why her making more money than a boyfriend ended a previous relationship.Then, can you really have it all? Tammy, Mike, and Bryan weigh in on whether you can date while pursuing your career and whether being “too busy to date” is legit or a cop-out. Plus, will we see Tammy on the beaches of “Paradise”? Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
53 min
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The One and Only Erin Brockovich Talks It Out
Activist and “Rebel” producer Erin Brockovich joins Mike and Bryan to discuss her incredible life and how being stubborn and persistent helped her change the world. Erin recalls her time fighting in Hinkley, California, which was featured in the movie “Erin Brockovich,” and explains why mothers should never feel guilty for the fact that they work. Erin also discusses how becoming a grandmother has reinvigorated her drive to make the world a better place and why we should all bring out our inner rebel. Learn more about “Rebel” on ABC. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
45 min
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Bri Springs Talks Unconventional Families and R...
Bachelor Nation’s Bri Springs joins Mike and Bryan to discuss her childhood growing up with a teenage mom and how that impacted her entire life. Bri also opens up about her mom’s skepticism when it came time to meet Bachelor Matt James, and Bri explains why her mom never liked any of her previous boyfriends. Plus, can men and women be “just friends”? Mike, Bryan, and Bri have a heated debate about the issue. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
52 min
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Demi Burnett Speaks Out on Controversy with Pop...
Bachelor Nation fan favorite Demi Burnett discusses her personal experiences with Reality Steve, the TV blogger widely known for his Bachelor spoilers. Demi opens up about the hate she has received from the blogger over the years and details the power dynamic that exists between Bachelor Nation and Reality Steve. Plus, for the first time, Demi weighs in on Reality Steve’s recent apology. Mike and Bryan also discuss the controversy and how they are supporting the women of Bachelor Nation.Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
55 min
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Exclusive: Zac Clark on Hitting Rock Bottom, Go...
In part two of Mike and Bryan’s exclusive interview with Bachelor Nation’s Zac Clark, Zac discusses what it was like at his lowest point and why he had to get punched in the face to become a humble man. Zac also opens up about his concerns with going on “The Bachelorette” sober and why he thinks it ended up giving him a competitive edge. Plus, Zac talks about why addiction doesn’t discriminate and shares which combination of therapy, medicine, and support groups finally got him sober. Learn more about Release Recovery. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
29 min
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Exclusive: Zac Clark Reveals How He Went Down t...
In part one of Mike and Bryan’s exclusive interview with Bachelor Nation’s Zac Clark, Zac opens up about his sheltered upbringing and discusses how he went down the dark path of drugs and addiction. Zac also reveals how he kept his drug use a secret from almost everyone in his life.Plus, Zac tells Mike and Bryan about the last few hours he was on drugs and shares the story about reuniting with the bank teller who saved his life. Zac also discusses what it was like dating while sober on “The Bachelorette” and how his fiancée Tayshia responded to him revealing his past struggles. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
36 min
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Dating Outside Your Race: Mike, Bryan & Bachelo...
Bachelor Nation fan favorite Ivan Hall joins Mike and Bryan to discuss their experiences dating outside their race. Bryan opens up about being in an interracial relationship with wife Rachel Lindsay and what he’s learned about Black women over the course of their marriage. Mike discusses the hate he’s gotten in the past for dating women who were not Black. Plus, Ivan talks about his upbringing and what it means being half Asian and half Black in this country. He discusses how he embraces both cultures and the ways he’s standing up for BLM and the AAPI community.Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
41 min
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Reality Star Carl Radke Discusses Addiction and...
Bravo’s “Summer House” star Carl Radke opens up about his brother’s tragic passing and how it changed the course of his own life. Carl reveals he went from self-medicating and partying four or five nights a week to now being sober and in therapy. He also explains what he learned about mental illness from his own experiences and his brother’s death. Plus, Mike and Bryan discuss what they do for self-care, and Bryan shares why therapy has been so beneficial in his relationship with wife Rachel Lindsay. Mike and Bryan also answer fan questions, including how to tell your family you’d like to attend therapy.   Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
43 min
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Money and Relationships: Mike & Bryan Dive into...
Should you date when you’re broke? Is sharing a bank account a good idea once you’re married? Mike and Bryan talk to financial expert Dr. Lynn Richardson, who shares pointers and suggestions for the best way to talk about money in a relationship. She reveals who really should pay for that first date and why gender roles and money are a thing of the past. Then, Mike and Bryan share their own experiences dealing with finances in relationships. Bryan discusses the fun way he and wife Rachel Lindsay learned more about each other’s spending habits. Mike and Bryan also talk about how their cultural differences affect how they see finances and family. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
40 min
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Does Size Matter? Mike, Bryan & Patrick Moote f...
Actor/documentarian Patrick Moote joins Mike and Bryan to discuss his quest to find out whether women really care about penis size. Is it true that men who have smaller penises generally make up for it in other areas? Nothing is off limits as Patrick, Mike, and Bryan have a no-holds-barred conversation about it all. Patrick also describes his search for penis enlargement options and what conclusions he came to along the way. Plus, Mike and Bryan discuss some of their own insecurities throughout their lives and how they overcame them. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
39 min
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Joe Amabile Talks Dating, Vulnerability, and th...
“Click Bait” host Joe Amabile joins Mike and Bryan for an in-depth talk about men and vulnerability. Joe discusses his upbringing in Chicago and how that influenced his ability to open up in his future relationships. Plus, he reveals how being on reality TV taught him to communicate, share, and be vulnerable. And is “Bachelor in Paradise” in Joe’s future? He discloses whether he’d be willing to head back to the beach and admits he has his eye on a few women from the last couple seasons of the show. Plus, is crying a sign of weakness for men? Mike and Bryan open up about the times they have broken down throughout their lives. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
45 min
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‘Bachelor’ Contestant Chelsea Vaughn Talks Doub...
Chelsea Vaughn, from Matt James’ season of “The Bachelor,” joins Mike and Bryan to discuss quitting her corporate day job and following her dreams of becoming a model. She opens up about the challenges she has faced in the modeling world, including her age, the color of her skin and her body size.Then, Chelsea flips the script and asks Mike Johnson which girl from her season he finds most attractive. Plus, Mike and Bryan answer listener questions and address the double standards between men and women – covering everything from body hair to “dad bods.” Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
44 min
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What Do Women Really Want? Mike, Bryan & Love E...
It’s the age-old question: What do women really want? Mike and Bryan welcome love expert Diann Valentine to discuss what women are really looking for. From love languages to what happens between the sheets, they get into it all. Diann also reveals the big difference between what men and women look for in a relationship. Then, Mike and Bryan tackle viewer questions. Bryan opens up about his home life with wife Rachel Lindsay and reveals who does the chores. And Mike discusses the importance of honesty in relationships. Have a question you want Mike and Bryan to answer? Submit yours now at Instagram.com/talkingitoutbn. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Thanks to our sponsor: Dollar Shave Club: DollarShaveClub.com/TalkItOut See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
44 min
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MTV’s Cory Wharton Weighs In on the Role of Com...
Cory Wharton from MTV’s “The Real World,” “The Challenge,” and “Teen Mom” joins Mike and Bryan to discuss his unconventional family, and why communication is such a key piece in its success. Cory discusses co-parenting with his ex, Cheyenne, and the struggles they’ve had along the way while raising daughter Ryder.   Plus, Mike and Bryan open up about their different upbringings. Mike discusses how growing up in a predominantly female household shaped him into the man he is today, and Bryan talks about having three older siblings who lived overseas and the effect that had on his life. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
44 min
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Bryan Speaks Out on Chris Harrison’s Controvers...
In an emotional discussion, Mike and Bryan weigh in on the racism surrounding Bachelor Nation and how it is affecting them personally. Bryan discusses his wife Rachel Lindsay’s interview with Chris Harrison, and how he felt watching Rachel in that position. Mike also reveals that Chris called him shortly after the “Extra” interview and shares his thoughts on their conversation. Plus, where does Bachelor Nation go from here and how do we learn, grow, and be better? Mike and Bryan weigh in. Be sure to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
44 min
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Initiate Sex, Set Expectations, and More Ways t...
Mike and Bryan discuss how they maintain successful relationships while also having demanding careers. Bryan reveals how he and wife Rachel Lindsay are managing their current long-distance living situation, and what their plans are for the future. Plus, NFL star Matthew Judon joins the conversation to talk about how his wife deals with his football schedule and his long hours training. Have a question you want Mike and Bryan to answer? Submit yours now at instagram.com/talkingitoutbn. Don’t forget to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Thanks to our sponsor:  Dollar Shave Club: DollarShaveClub.com/TalkItOutSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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