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1
Calorie-Counting Grandma
Slate’s parenting podcast debates healthy eating habits and how to address anxiety.
51 min
2
Should You Redshirt Your Kindergartener?
Plenty of parents hold their kindergarten-aged kid back a year. Is the pandemic an OK reason?
24 min
3
So… You Want to Be a Homeschooler?
Homeschool and learning pods may be the safest option for your family. But is it socially responsible?
73 min
4
Bosslady in Crisis Edition
For employees with kids, scrapping the 40-hour work week might be the key to surviving the pandemic.
50 min
5
The Teacher Roundtable Edition
A candid discussion with four teachers about how they’re really feeling about the 2020 school year.
45 min
6
The Toddler On the Run Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates preventing a little escapee from taking off again.
48 min
7
Goes Right Through Him Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates a 3-year-old's bathroom logic.
42 min
8
Grandma Has a Favorite Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if it’s wrong to enjoy the spoils of grandparent babysitting when other grandkids are left out.
40 min
9
Talk to Kids About Racism Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast discusses race, equity, and police violence.
65 min
10
Visit From Mike Birbiglia Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast discusses parenthood, quarantine comedy, and Birbiglia’s new book.
63 min
11
New to News Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast discusses age-appropriate news sources for kids.
66 min
12
At Home With Elmo Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast discusses the new Not-Too-Late Show with Elmo—yes, that Elmo.
45 min
13
The Graduation-ish Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if you should force your senior to celebrate graduation.
50 min
14
Make Believe Murder Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if pretend violence should be stopped.
58 min
15
Cut It Yourself Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if you should finally attempt an at-home haircut.
46 min
16
Master of LEGO Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast revisits quarantine bubbles with an epidemiologist and discusses wild LEGO builds with Boone Langston of LEGO Masters.
71 min
17
The Pandemic Pod People Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates forming quarantine pacts and interacting with imaginary friends.
55 min
18
Dad Can Play Too Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates how a dad who doesn’t enjoy pretend play can occupy his 3-year-old.
68 min
19
Going to the Zoo During Coronavirus Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast talks with a zookeeper and discusses splitting custody during a pandemic.
64 min
20
The Will We Overcome Boredom Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if parents should feel guilty by being bored by small children.
56 min
21
The Cross Country Conundrum Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast discusses how to help a teen half a country away. Plus: How much parenting anxiety is too much?
51 min
22
We Are All Homeschoolers Now Edition
On Slate’s parenting podcast, our homeschool expert gives advice on a daily schedule to keep the kids learning while you work.
56 min
23
The Quarantine’s a-Comin’ Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates what to do if, or when, schools close due to the coronavirus.
61 min
24
The All Kids, All the Time Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if you can work with kids, have kids, and remain sane.
46 min
25
The Hyphenation Headache Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whose last name should be given to a child.
44 min
26
The Trampled on the Playground Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if it’s okay to tell the older kids on jungle gym to knock it off.
53 min
27
The I Hate You Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if one “I hate you" voids 15 million “I love you”s.
36 min
28
Let Black Girls Be Girls Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast discusses how “adultification” harms black girls’ childhood.
48 min
29
The Basketball Families Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates if a dad should quit assistant coaching the all-encompassing varsity basketball team.
64 min
30
The Odd Girl Out Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates how a mom who loves her three sons can reconcile with still wanting a daughter.
45 min
31
Already Over the Christmas Presents Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whether a kid with gift remorse should get a Switch.
46 min
32
Pretty White Boy Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast debates what to do when colorism affects how your teachers treat your child.
47 min
33
New Year, New Us
Slate’s parenting podcast declares some 2020 parenting resolutions.
44 min
34
Peek Behind the Curtain
Slate’s parenting podcast looks back at some of this year’s best Slate Plus segments.
61 min
35
This Was Not in the Parenting Handbook
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whether a daughter should switch schools to be among students who look like her.
37 min
36
Slate Presents: Lockdown
Living through the era of school shootings, one drill at a time.
24 min
37
Candy Cane Lane
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whether a mother-in-law is stealing all the great Christmas moments with the kids.
57 min
38
Home Alone
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whether kids should be left home while parents vacation in Aruba.
51 min
39
Live from Miami
Slate’s parenting podcast, live on stage with Pamela Paul and Adam Mansbach.
41 min
40
Whoops...A Baby!
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whether a kid should be told they were unwanted.
57 min
41
Keep Your Head Above Water
Slate’s parenting podcast debates whether a reluctant swimmer should continue lessons.
46 min
42
Into the Unknown
Slate’s parenting podcast dreads Elsa’s new big song in Frozen 2.
49 min
43
Parent Under the Influence Edition
Slate’s parenting podcast helps a mom who finds storytime more tolerable after a few
53 min
44
Jesus, Take the Wheel!
Rebecca, Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom who wants to better deal with her kid’s identity and a dad who is insisting his kid learn to drive.
51 min
45
You Need To Calm Down
Rebecca, Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom who wants to know if it really makes a difference whether you yell at your kids and another mom who wants to make sure she doesn’t overshare her mental health issues with her kid.
61 min
46
Breast Milk Taste Test
Rebecca and Dan answer listener questions from a mom struggling with whether it’s okay to offer breast milk to her curious kid and a mom who thinks it’s uncool to be disrupted by a kid during a performance for kids.
34 min
47
Birthday Parties and Birthday Suits
Rebecca. Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a a mom disagreeing with a father about their young boys showering with her and a mom who thinks her child’s unsupportive father shouldn’t be invited to a birthday party.
53 min
48
Introducing Hang Up and Listen: Kids Play the D...
40 min
49
Suburban Appropriation
Rebecca. Jamilah and Amy answer listener questions from a questioning the appropriateness of a local organization and a mom who wants her husband to be better about raising a body positive child.
50 min
50
Sponsored: It's a Playdate
25 min
51
Wrap It Up
Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom who is feeling anxious about her teenager wanting to buy condoms and a co-parenting dad who has some concerns.
42 min
52
How to Be a Family Edition
A very special bonus episode about Dan’s journey around the world and his new book.
63 min
53
Back To Work and Back To School
Rebecca, Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom who is worried she won’t be able to do it all and a mom who wants to keep her parents from putting her kid into a gender box.
46 min
54
Introducing How To! With Charles Duhigg
Mom and Dad listeners, we think you'll enjoy this episode of How To! With Charles Duhigg
28 min
55
Bittersweet
Rebecca, Jamilah and Faith answer listener questions from an aunt struggling to confront her niece’s traumatic experience and a non-parent that wants to be more useful to her friends with kids.
39 min
56
Am I A Spoiled Brat?
Rebecca, Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom that wants her mother to be more supportive an a worried grandma who is looking for the right way to have a tough conversation with a child.
47 min
57
Favorite Grandma
49 min
58
EuroTrip
Jamilah and Dan answer listener questions from a mom that’s having second thoughts about a second kid and a mom whose kid wants to travel across Europe.
48 min
59
What's Up With All Those Nannies?
Rebecca, Jamilah, and Tom answer listener questions from a mom that doesn’t seem to understand the need for nannies and a mom that wants to have more inclusive birthday parties.
52 min
60
Playground Beer
Dan, Rebecca, and Jamilah answer listener questions from an introverted dad who wants to raise a social kid and from atheist parents struggling with attending events at their local evangelical university.
51 min
61
Exclusive Besties
The hosts answer listener questions about exclusive best friends and a kid that uses an offensive word during a fight.
50 min
62
Carpool Liability Waiver
The hosts answer listener questions about a mom who has some strong concerns about their kid carpooling and a friend who’s worried that they might be overstepping.
42 min
63
Fish and Candy
The hosts answer listener questions about a mom who wants to know what to do about a sort of stepson and another about a kid who’s hanging out with a kid that counts calories.
53 min
64
What's Up With Your Boyfriend?
The hosts answer listener questions about a mom who wants to know what to do about a sexist boyfriend and a mom who wants to know what to do about her kid being left out in the dark after hanging with a friend.
37 min
65
Teen in Need
The hosts answer listener questions about a teen in need of some support about their sensitive mom and what to do about a little that likes dressing up as problematic princesses.
47 min
66
Don't Forget Grandpa
The hosts answers listener questions about a mother who wants to ensure her kids remember their grandpa after he passes and the importance of table manners at dinner.
57 min
67
Bed, Bath, and Biting Edition
The hosts answers listener questions about what to do when your kid refuses to shower and a kid that refuses to stop biting.
45 min
68
Dan Kois Returns Edition
The hosts answers listener questions about what to do with your kid that refuses everything, even the fun stuff, and another about what it even means to have siblings. We also welcome Dan Kois back to the show.
53 min
69
Pollen Prank Edition
The hosts answer a listener question about what actually matters when parenting your kid. We also say farewell to Gabe and Carvell.
58 min
70
Theatrical Charlatan Edition
Gabe and Carvell interview podcaster and author Theresa Thorn about her upcoming picture book, It Feels Good To Be Yourself: A Book about Gender Identity and answer a listener question about a narcissistic theatre teacher.
45 min
71
Violating The Uber Pool Code Edition
Gabe, Carvell, and Rebecca answer a listener question about what to tell your kids when you’re getting a divorce but staying in the same home.
47 min
72
Washing Dishes on an Infomercial Edition
Dan, Carvell, and Rebecca interview Darcy Lockman, author of All the Rage: Mothers, Fathers and the Myth of Equal Partnership, about her article in The New York Times, “What ‘Good’ Dads Get Away With,” and we answer a listener question about what to do about a mean teenager.
63 min
73
Stupid Box Edition
Gabe and Rebecca answer listener questions on what to do after you discover your kid isn’t a child prodigy and how to get your teen to maybe surf waves instead of the internet.
44 min
74
On The Table Edition
Ruth, Gabe, and Carvell answer listener questions on when to consider getting a vasectomy and how to make sure your kid doesn’t become obsessed with their looks.
46 min
75
The Frank Edition
Rebecca, Gabe, and Carvell answer listener questions on how to set rules for adults at a one-year old’s birthday party and what to do when parents project their childhood traumas onto to their kids.
50 min
76
Teenager Under the Bed Edition
Rebecca, Gabe, and Carvell answer listener questions about when to limit a five year old’s Batman intake and if parents should settle for second best when it comes to kid car seats.
45 min
77
Pre-School Nemesis Edition
Rebecca, Gabe, and Carvell answer listener questions about communicating with an ex-spouse's family after divorce and what to do about challenges between a stepdad and kid.
41 min
78
Ages Ten And Up Edition
Rebecca, Gabe, and guest host Katherine answer listener questions about putting the pressure on your kid after getting into a prestige school and solutions on getting your kids to play nice with each other.
42 min
79
Make The Chicken Dance Edition
Rebecca, Gabe, and Carvell answer listener questions about the looming fear of talking with your kid about death and if it's okay if your ten year-old is into Amy Winehouse and other adult things.
51 min
80
Free Lunch Edition
Rebecca and Isaac talk with the authors of the book Pressure Cooker: Why Home Cooking Won't Solve Our Problems and What We Can Do About It and answer a listener question about placing your kids in a religious pre-school.
45 min
81
Broken Promises Edition
Gabriel Roth, Rebecca Lavoie, and Carvell Wallace discuss follow-up to the piña colada censorship story, husbands that break promises, estranged fathers, and more.
55 min
82
CSI: American Girl Doll Edition
Gabriel Roth, Rebecca Lavoie, and Carvell Wallace discuss temporary visiting dog fails, teacher's strikes, doll-related crime scenes, bedwetting at science camp, and husbands in need of encouragement.
44 min
83
Presenting Decoder Ring: Baby Shark
Decoder Ring is Slate's culture documentary show and this month they have an episode on a subject of special interest to Mom and Dad Are Fighting listeners: Baby Shark.
38 min
84
Do You Like Pina Coladas? Edition
Gabriel Roth, Carvell Wallace, and Rebecca Lavoie are joined by Katherine Goldstein to talk about her brand new podcast The Double Shift, a show about working mothers.
48 min
85
Marching Band Clown Pants Edition
Gabriel Roth, Rebecca Lavoie, and Carvell Wallace discuss a trio of parenting fails, a really tough question about telling your kid that her dad isn't her biological dad, and another about a kid that has to be winning at all times.
51 min
86
Toddler Rabies Edition
Rebecca Lavoie and Carvell Wallace receive a transmission direct from the scene of a temper tantrum, and discuss a question about telling your kids about estranged parents. Plus, learn which member of the Lavoie household is officially a narc.
54 min
87
What Next: Anti-Vaxxers Brought Back the Measles
16 min
88
Pesto in a Tub Edition
Gabriel Roth, Rebecca Lavoie, and Carvell Wallace discuss Gabe's greatest-of-all-time parenting triumph, opening up to your kids, making it to year sixteen, whether divorced parents have it easier, and the anxiety of being an older parent.
47 min
89
Mom and Dad Are Fighting: This Job Sucks Edition
46 min
90
Introducing Josie & Jonny are Having a Baby (Wi...
2 min
91
Grandma Inception Edition
Rebecca Lavoie, Carvell Wallace, and Gabriel Roth discuss picky eaters with The Sporkful's Dan Pashman, a listener question about kids and creative problem solving, "Triumphs and Fails" and recommendations.
55 min
92
Accidental Beauties Edition
Rebecca Lavoie, Carvell Wallace, and Isaac Butler discuss tyrannical grandmas, musical bribery, triumphs and fails, recommendations, and more.
57 min
93
Behind the Velvet Rope Edition
Gabriel Roth hosts a cultivated selection of some favorite Slate Plus segments to ring in the new year, featuring Rebecca Lavoie, Carvell Wallace, Allison Benedikt, and Isaac Butler.
42 min
94
Friend Zone Edition
Gabriel Roth, Rebecca Lavoie, and Carvell Wallace are prompted by a Washington Post series of three stories about raising boys in the #MeToo era to discuss teenagers, modern masculinity, "the friend zone", and more.
52 min
95
Time Is My Co-Parent Edition
Rebecca Lavoie, Carvell Wallace, and Gabriel Roth discuss the role of step parents, and their relationships to the birth parents of their step-kids.
40 min
96
Welcome to the Man Cave Edition
On this week’s episode, Carvell and Gabe discuss an accidental dirty joke fail while getting a Christmas tree and a rare bureaucratic triumph.
40 min
97
Introducing: Who Runs That?
36 min
98
Parent Like it's 1985 Edition
Rebecca Lavoie, Carvell Wallace, and Gabriel Roth discuss whether to confront an overprotective daycare, how to make sure your kids aren't "the mean ones", Triumphs and Fails, "endorsements" and more.
47 min
99
Family Game Night Edition
Carvell, Rebecca, and Gabe are joined by Noel Murray to discuss Slate’s new package on family games: the best, the worst, and more, including Rebecca’s spirited defense of the game Clue.
54 min
100
Nerf Gun Fantasy Edition
Gabriel Roth, Carvell Wallace, and Mary Harris discuss Gabe's annual Autumn Sing fail, Carvell's new job as a PA on his son's film, Mary's daughter's competitive , Nerf Gun Christmas gifts, and more.
41 min