Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relatio...
Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.
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538 - When Knowing Better Doesn't Mean Doing Be...
Today, we're discussing why we struggle to put the communication and relationship lessons we learn into practice. Current generations are more therapy-literate than ever, but that doesn't mean our relationships are healthier. What happens when everyone kno
61 min
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537 - Breaking the Cycle: Releasing the Grip of...
Welcome back to our series on control! This week, we're talking about control from the perspective of the person who wants to have the control or power in the relationship. There are a multitude of reasons why someone might want to control another person,
53 min
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536 - Finding Your Voice: Navigating Control an...
Today we're talking about control and power in relationships, specifically from the lens of losing control.
56 min
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535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multipl...
Today we're tackling a question from one of our Supercast subscribers about equity in multiple relationships, feel prioritized, and how to handle tough conversations about energy, money, and mismatched desire in relationships.
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36 min
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534 - When We're Asked to Change (and When It's...
This week, we're diving into what happens when a partner asks you to change, and evaluating what's acceptable to ask of someone.
63 min
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533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick &...
Julie and Yue from the Dateable podcast join us to talk about how to be dateable, modern dating, and relationships in general.
66 min
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532 - Is Attachment Theory Just Bullsh*t?
We're talking about the cases for and against attachment theory, as well as healing unhealthy attachments through non-monogamy.
57 min
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531 - What's Wrong with Enjoying Consensual Sex...
We're fielding listener questions about to word love, polyamorous identity, and close friends' and family's misconceptions.
53 min
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530 - Why You Keep Having the Same Fight – 3 To...
Today we're bringing back a popular episode on relationship conflict. We're talking about three different patterns that show up in conflicts, how to recognize which one is showing up for yourself, and discuss some ways to disrupt the pattern and create new
53 min
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529 - Yes, You Can Think Your Way Out of Your F...
Today we're discussing cognitive reappraisal, the notion of thinking yourself out of a negative emotional response.
60 min
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528 - The Art of Stepping Back: De-escalation
This week we're getting into the nitty gritty details of ending relationships, whether it's by breaking up or de-escalating. We'll be discussing all the different ways relationships constantly change, defining some terms for uncoupling, how to navigate the
62 min
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527 - Why Your Search for Closure Isn't Working
Today we're talking about a universal human experience: wanting to feel better after a relationship ends. However, a lot of us end up seeking the wrong type of closure, and we can stay stuck in pain for even longer. In this episode we're going to discuss t
57 min
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526 - How do you make space for a primary relat...
Today we're answering some more listener questions! We'll be tackling some questions about moving too fast in relationships, relationship hierarchy, and primary versus non-primary relationships.
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56 min
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525 - Your Metamour is Not the Villain with Ale...
Today we're talking about metamour relationships with Alex Alberto. Alex is a queer author, publisher, and filmmaker. Last year, Alex published their memoir, “Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home” through Quilted Press, a collective of independe
61 min
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524 - From Worried to Empowered: Taking Action ...
Diana Adams and Brett Chamberlain return to the show to discuss relationship rights in our current political climate.
66 min
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523 - How do I cultivate polyamorous community?...
For today's Q&A episode, we're talking about building community, guilt, and missing non-nesting partners!
43 min
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522 - The Power of Denial: Are You Lying to You...
Today we're chatting about denial, why it happens, whether it can help us, and how to know when you're feeling it.
55 min
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521 - Finding Fairness in Non-monogamy
Today we're talking about equity, equality, and fairness in all relationships, but particularly non-monogamous ones. We'll discuss the differences between equity and equality, perceived fairness, equity among multiple partners, and more! As always, we'll h
58 min
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520 - Do You Treat Your Partner Worse Than You ...
Today we're chatting about romantic relationships, friendships, and the ways we often treat the two differently. Why do we think of our romantic partners as our most intimate and important connections, and yet sometimes don't treat them with the same respe
50 min
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519 - Competing for Attention: Why Your Partner...
Today we're talking about attention and attentiveness as a relationship resource. It's natural for us to want to feel loved, important, and listened to, especially by our partners and family. But distraction happens, particularly nowadays in a digital age,
54 min
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518 - Talking to Kids about Non-Monogamy (with ...
Abbey and Liam from Evolving Love join us to answer some listener questions about parenthood, guilt, and more!
61 min
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517 - Breaking the Approval Cycle
Today we're talking about the need for approval many of us feel every day and the impact it can have on our relationships. We're discussing what approval-seeking and people-pleasing are, whether seeking approval is always harmful in a relationship, pros an
51 min
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516 - Is Solo Polyamory Right For You?
Today we're diving into solo polyamory, what it is, why someone might want it, and how it affects your relationships.
47 min
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515 - Romanticization: Friend or Foe?
Does idealizing something work in our favor or does it just make reality that much harder? Today's all about romanticization.
55 min