Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relatio...
Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com.
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111 - Polyamory-Friendly Counseling
If you've hit a particularly sticky bump in your relationship, or if you're interested in doing some preventative maintenance and exploration, it is extremely helpful to seek professional guidance. Speaking with a therapist, counselor, or coach can provide
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110 - Deconstructing Jealousy
We talk a lot about jealousy in the polyamory scene -- how to manage it, how to de-program it, how to communicate with your partners about it. But in this episode, we are going to be deconstructing jealousy -- categorizing specific triggers and their cause
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109 - Ethical Unicorn Hunting (live show)
Unicorn hunters (heterosexual couples seeking to add a bisexual woman to their relationship) get a bad rap in the polyamorous community. But is it possible to defy this stereotype and add a third to your relationship in a way that's ethical, kind, and groo
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108 - Solo Polyamory (Live Show)
Multiamory is in Portland! In this special, live-audience episode, we explore solo polyamory. The solo poly crowd is an often-misunderstood, yet significant portion of the non-monogamous community at large, and this week we uncover the many different ways
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107 - A Very Polyamorous Valentine's Day (Live ...
The Multiamory West Coast tour brought the crew to Seattle on February 14th. On this very traditional romantic holiday, we spent some time discussing how people in non-traditional relationships can use this as a time to reflect on the unique qualities each
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106 - 7 Habits of Highly Effective Poly People ...
This week's episode was recorded during Multiamory's very first stop on their West Coast Tour 2017! Every seat in the house at Octopus Literary Salon in Oakland, California was full as we presented a talk on the 7 habits of highly effective polyamorous peo
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105 - The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory
Our own Dedeker Winston's book, The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory comes out internationally today and we are so excited to be able to interview her about the book and share our own experiences with reading it. Dedeker talks to us about the importance of
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104 - Polyamory in Movies and TV (Live Show)
This is a very special live presentation by the Multiamory crew that took place in Santa Monica on January 20th, 2017. In this episode we are discussing the various ways polyamory and non-monogamous relationships are portrayed in fictional movies, TV, and
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103 - Relationship Agreements with Eri Kardos
This week we are very pleased to speak with Eri Kardos, international speaker, coach, and author of the newly released book <em>Relationship Agreements. </em>Eri takes us through the basic philosophy of using agreements to strengthen your relationships, wh
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102 - Emotional Responsibility aka Owning Your ...
If you've ever been in a relationship with a human being, chances are you've encountered some emotions within yourself and the other person. Until the day we are dating Vulcans or robots, our relationships will continue to be sticky, emotional, and not alw
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101 - Gender Non-Conformity 101
This week on Multiamory, Jase and Emily get all Gender Non-Specific with our special guest, professional cuddliest and dominatrix, Tate Ashley! Tate helps us explore queer theory, gender "extremes" vs. gender "middle ground," and language and its inefficie
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100 - Relationship Resolutions
It's Multiamory's 100th episode! It's a new season! It's a new year! And that means....New Year's Resolutions. Download the <a href="https://multi-amory.squarespace.com/s/NewYearsResolutionsWorksheet.pdf">worksheet here</a> to use in your own relationships
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099 - I Got 99 Problems but 2016 Ain't One
2016 was a challenging year, but the Multiamory crew is tired of all the doom and gloom. In this episode, we review the good parts of 2016. A lot of great things happened for the Multiamory podcast, for the polyamory community, and for all three of us! Joi
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098 - Happy Holidays Part 2: This Time It's Per...
The holidays are upon us, and so is the holiday stress! This week we are talking about all the aspects of the holidays that makes us fall into a temporary stress-induced insanity. We also give insights on managing the holidays with multiple partners and ho
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097 - Agile Scrum Your Relationships
This week we are discussing a unique communication system to try out in your relationships: agile scrum. The agile scrum system was originally developed to be applied to software development, but writer Alanna Krause adapted the system to become <a href="h
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096 - Polyamorous Storytelling and Diversity wi...
This week we are excited to speak with Jackie Stone, director of the poly-themed web series, <em>Compersion</em>. Jackie shares with us her inspiration to tell the story of a monogamous couple opening up their marriage, and her commitment to bringing gritt
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095 - Consent with Sex Nerd Sandra
This week the Multiamory crew is very excited to intereview sex educator and podcast host for <a href="http://nerdist.com/">The Nerdist,</a> <a href="https://sexnerdsandra.com/">Sex Nerd Sandra</a>! Sandra takes us through the complex world of consent with
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094 - Multiamory has Group Sex with Billy Procida
This week we welcome very special guest Billy Procida, host of <a href="http://manwhorepod.com/"><em>The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex Positive Quest for Love.</em></a>We dig into all kinds of topics in this one: sex positivity, sex party etiquette, being a sing
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093 - Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First
At Multiamory, we generally discourage people from building their relationships on a basis of strict, primary-secondary hierarchy. However, primary-secondary relationships are still very common in the polyamorous community. All three of us have engaged in
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092 - Should You Come Out of the Closet?
Coming out to partners, family, friends, or co-workers about being polyamorous is an important decision that could potentially change your life and your relationships, for better or worse. In this episode, we run you through the most important risks and be
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091 - The Polyamorous Man: Masculinity and Non-...
Only 1/3 of the Multiamory crew identifies as male, but social expectations of masculinity have had an influence on all of us. This week we're digging in to the fundamentals of masculinity. What does it mean to "be a man"? What are the classic hallmarks of
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090 - Polyamory Processing Groups
Have you ever felt alone on your poly journey? Do your friends or family immediately jump to blaming polyamory for any relationship problems you may have? We've definitely all encountered this and have wished for a better support network.
On this episode w
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089 - Make Polyamory Great Again
This week, the Multiamory crew is pissed off. The current political climate has inspired us to vent about a number of topical things that get under our skin: toxic masculinity, sexual harassment, the alt right, and more.
In particular, we examine how the
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088 - Do You Feel Special?
Most of us enjoy feeling special, particularly to our romantic partners. In traditional relationships, one's specialness is closely linked to exclusivity. You are the person I choose to be monogamous with, therefore you are #1 special person in my life! Bu
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087 - Five Mistakes Polyamory N00bs Make
For a long time there haven't been many public role models to demonstrate healthy, high-functioning polyamory, in contrast to the many demonstrations of monogamy we see every day on TV, movies, and other corners of the media.
It's easy to make mistakes wh
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