How to Do It with Stoya and Rich
For three years, Stoya and Rich Juzwiak have been giving advice to Slate readers on all things sex—mismatched libidos, secret desires, (bad) sexting, surprising fetishes, and assorted other wild things. Now they're joining forces to answer their most jaw-dropping questions yet, sometimes with the help of special guests. Whatever you want to know about sex—truly, whatever—they'll tell you how to do it.
1
My Boyfriend Loves Dirty Talk. But He Doesn’t S...
It feels really unfair.
25 min
2
My Husband Went on a Date With His Ex-Girlfriend
In retrospect, this may have been a mistake.
10 min
3
No One Tells You What Happens When You’re Sudde...
The women in their 20s are the worst.
11 min
4
I’m Overwhelmed by My Boyfriend’s Sexual Demands
I feel like I’m losing my mind.
20 min
5
The One Thing My Partner Desires in Bed Makes M...
I think it’s a texture thing.
22 min
6
I’m a Woman With a Very Male Sex Problem
Plot twist.
19 min
7
The Simple Way to Have Better Sex After Marriage
It’s easier than it seems.
20 min
8
I (Unfortunately) Know What My Husband Has Been...
I’m only hurt because of the other reason.
23 min
9
I’ve Only Just Discovered What Really Turns Me ...
And how do I tell my wife?
30 min
10
What Everyone Gets Wrong About Herpes
A doctor explains whether a woman’s new boyfriend is right about their herpes risk.
29 min
11
I'm Worried About Cheating on My Girlfriend Wit...
Let me explain.
17 min
12
I Have “COVID Dick.” Can I… Grow It Back?
This is a nightmare.
25 min
13
My Husband Tried Something “New” With His Penis...
A great modern sex debate arrives in my household.
15 min
14
The Thing That’s Been Turning Me on the Most Is...
Is this a problem I should feel guilty about?
15 min
15
I Had Another Woman Take Over Sex With My Boyfr...
It seemed like a great idea at the time.
21 min
16
Is What I Just Did Really “Cheating” on My Boyf...
I can’t tell if I feel too guilty for this—or not guilty enough.
19 min
17
My Girlfriend’s Real Sexual History Caught Me O...
I worry I don’t want her anymore.
18 min
18
I Have the Curse of the Straight Woman
What do you think of my solution?
22 min
19
What Happens After I Fight With My Girlfriend I...
I’m a little concerned.
24 min
20
I Discovered an Astonishing “Secret” About My B...
There’s no way he did this by accident.
28 min
21
The Big Problem With Well-Endowed Men
It's making me feel inadequate.
24 min
22
I Saw What My Husband Is Secretly Doing on His ...
Do all men do this?
16 min
23
The Truth That Would Devastate My Husband
Every time we have sex, I can’t help but think about this.
21 min
24
I Feel Terrible About What Turns Me On. But It’...
Where do I go to get this removed from my brain?
17 min
25
The Question You Can Never Ask Men on Dating Apps
Is this really so bad?
16 min