The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley...

A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.

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Summer Quickies: Orgasms
Climax - "How can we both experience great orgasms consistently"?
10 min
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Bonus: Real Marriage Podcast Sneak Peek
Subscribe to Real Marriage with Mark & Grace Driscoll: https://xomarriage.com/realmarriageCheck out Dave and Ashley's NEW book here - https://www.amazon.com/Naked-Marriage-Undressing-intimacy-lifelong-ebook/dp/B07HQYWFDYFollow us on Social:Facebook: @strongermarriagesInstagram: @daveandashleywillisTwitter: @davewillisA podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together they have built a strong following, reaching millions of married couples through their blogs, books, and videos. They have four young sons and live near Dallas, TX.
11 min
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Summer Quickies: Foreplay
Foreplay - "How can I get my spouse in the mood"?
9 min
404
Summer Quickies: How Men and Women are Different
This is the second episode in our "Sexy Summer Quickies" series. Over the course of 12 episodes, Dave and Ashley are answering the 12 most common questions about sex in marriage in short (approximately ten-minutes each) episodes. This episode is all about common gender differences in marriage and answering the common question "How are men's sexual needs and women's sexual needs different"?
11 min
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Summer Quickies: How Often Should We Make Love?
This is the first episode in our "Sexy Summer Quickies" series. Over the course of 12 episodes, Dave and Ashley are answering the 12 most common questions about sex in marriage in short (approximately ten-minutes each) episodes. This episode is all about sexual frequency in marriage and answering the common question "How often should a married couple have sex"?
9 min
406
A God-Centered Marriage
In this interview with Luis and Kristen Roman, Dave and Ashley discuss the Roman's new book (Un Matrimonio Divino) and talk about how to bring God into every aspect of married life. The Roman's are Pastors, Podcasters, Speakers and Writers for XOlatino.com which is MarriageToday's hub for marriage resources available in Spanish.
43 min
407
Healthy Hobbies
Hobbies can be a healthy outlet to strengthen your marriage or an imbalanced obsession which can harm the marriage. Dave and Ashley have a conversation about the benefits of healthy habits and the warning signs that certain hobbies are creating imbalance and friction in the marriage.
27 min
408
Love and Money
Money is a leading cause of stress in most marriages. Learning to communicate about finances in a healhty way can be a vital skill in preserving healthy finances and a healthy relationship with your spouse. In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn talking about groundbreaking research from their new book, "Thriving in Love and Money."
45 min
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Marriage Pitfalls
There are many "pitfalls" that can trip up a married couple. Dave and Ashley address some of the most common warning signs of unhealthy pitfalls plus ways to safeguard your marriage from these negative habits and mindsets. The Q&A segment at the end of the episode addresses a question on what to do when one spouse has no motivation to focus on physical health and the frustrations and sexual disconnect it can create in the marriage.
35 min
410
Overcoming Past Sexual Abuse
Some of the deepest scars and biggest hurdles an individual (and a married couple) could ever face relate to the wounds of past sexual abuse. In this episode, we hear the harrowing and heroic story of sexual abuse survivor Alyssa Gordon and her supportive husband, Tyler. Dave and Ashley's interview with Tyler and Alyssa can help bring healing and hope to anyone who has been impacted by the trauma of past or current abuse.
39 min
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Monogamy vs. Multiple Partners
In an age of ongoing sexual revolution, many people believe that the very idea of lifelong monogamy is outdated and impractical. Some even point to examples of polygamy and polyamory in the Bible as justification for these alternative lifestyles. Dave and Ashley tackle these issues with research, real-life anecdotes, Biblical perspective, and Jesus' own definition of marriage.
34 min
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Discouragement, Disappointment and Depression
We've all experienced moments (or even prolonged seasons) of discouragement. Sometimes these long seasons of disappointment can morph into a full-blown depression, a mid-life crisis or a myriad of other issues. Dave and Ashley share some personal experiences and Biblical perspective on how to navigate your marriage in a healthy way when either you or your spouse is facing ongoing discouragement.
31 min
413
Rekindling Romance
Was there ever a season in your marriage when you felt closer to your spouse than you feel right now? If so, what changed? In this episode, Dave and Ashley will unpack the reasons why many couples subtly drift apart and they'll share practical ways to rekindle romance, passion, and intimacy in every part of the marriage.
32 min
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The F5 Marriage Tornado
Many couples stay "stuck" in a perpetual cycle of conflict and frustration. Dave and Ashley refer to this cycle as "The F5 Marriage Tornado" and in this episode, they unpack why this unhealthy cycle exists and how to permanently escape it and replace it with healthy communication and peace in the home.
30 min
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Finding Peace in Troubling Times
In the midst of Covid-19, there is widespread fear about finances, disease and a myriad of other issues. Even after the current crisis has passed, there will always be potentially fearful factors we must navigate. In this episode, Dave and Ashley talk about God's timeless plan for finding peace in our homes even in the midst of chaotic circumstances.
28 min
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Porn and Sex Addiction
In this "Part 2" in our addiciton series, Dave and Ashley interview Licensed Sex Therapist and Marriage and Family Therapist Cory Anderson who is also the founder of the Integrity Counselling Group based in San Diego. Cory shares practical tips for couples struggling with addictions related to sex, pornography, substance abuse and a myriad of other issues. His research and clinical expertise provide a pathway toward healing for anyone caught in the cycle of addiction.
40 min
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Addiction, Sobriety and Recovery
In this "Part 1" of a two-part series on addiction issues in marriage, Dave and Ashley interview longtime friends Eric and Kristen Kennedy. Their testimony about overcoming substance abuse and building a strong, blended family is full of hope and practical applications for couples and individuals who are caught in a cycle of drug and/or alcohol dependence.
38 min
418
Marriage Triggers
Every couple (and every individual spouse) has certain "triggers" which can spark a bad mood or an argument. Learning to identify those triggers is the first step toward healthier communication and conflict resolution. In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Guy and Amber Lia who authored the new book, "Marriage Triggers." This conversation could help every couple learn to navigate "Marriage Triggers" in a healthier way.
33 min
419
Who's Your Daddy?
One of the most common marriage mistakes occurs when the marriage takes on a parent-child dynamic between spouses instead of treating each other as partners and equals. This authoritative dynamic can happen in a variety of different situations, and some couples fall into it without even realizing it. In this episode, Dave and Ashley discuss how to recognize this negative dynamic and how to replace it with a healthier partnership.
26 min
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Overcoming Disagreements
Every marriage faces disagreements because every spouse has his/her own personality, perspective, and preferences. In this episode, Dave and Ashley have an important conversation about the keys to keeping unity and peace in marriage even when the husband and wife have two different preferences. Examples will be shared from small issues like "What to watch on Netflix" to major, life-changing choices like "Whether to have more children" and "Should we make a career change."
33 min
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The Four Laws of Love
Marriage only works when a couple recognizes and respects the God-given "laws" which make a marriage thrive. In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Jimmy Evans about his new book, "The Four Laws of Love." Jimmy Evans (along with his wife Karen) founded MarriageToday and he is one of the world's leading voices in marriage ministry. This conversation will equip couples with new tools and perspectives to help their marriage grow stronger.
36 min
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Intimacy Outside the Bedroom
Intimacy has come to be a codeword for "sex." Sex is obviously an important part of marriage, but true intimacy in marriage goes far beyond just what's happening in the bedroom. In this episode, Dave and Ashley explore practical ways to bring more intimacy to your conversations, your daily routine and every aspect of your marriage (including your sex life).
29 min
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Culture Clashes in Marriage
Every couple comes from two different words to a certain extent. Even when both spouses grew up in the same area, cultural differences within each family can create obstacles in a marriage. How do you navigate the compromises and respect each other's differences while finding unity in the marriage? In this episode, Dave and Ashley interview Terry and Keewani Cook who come from two different parts of the world and have navigated some extreme cultural differences to find deeper intimacy. This episode also includes a special offer available at www.Compassion.com/marriage
26 min
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Grumpy Spouse
We all have bad days. In those moments (or seasons) when your spouse is discouraged, frustrated, grumpy or disillusioned, you have a unique opportunity to help bring out his/her best or bring out the worst. We'll address some practical and Biblical principles and communication tactics to change the tone in your marriage from negativity to one of peace and joy.
27 min
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Oral Sex
By popular demand, we're dedicating an entire episode to the many questions we receive related to oral sex. What does the Bible say about it? What if one spouse loves it and one spouse is uncomfortable with it? Join us for an honest, uninhibited conversation about oral sex in marriage.
30 min