Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field who’s mission is to take the intimidation out of intimacy.

<p>On this Episode Sydney is joined by fellow Bachelor alumni Sharleen Joynt. They discuss her time on the show and her perspective on Bachelor then vs. now. Sydney and Sharleen compare experiences both on the show and in their similar career paths as they talk through topics like confidence and balancing passion with career. Stay tuned to the end as Sharleen gives her incredible advice on dating post pandemic, how to overcome heartbreak, and what she would tell her younger self!</p><p>watch on youtube: https://youtu.be/_Cx6P7l1FkM</p><p>@somethingtosharepodcast</p><p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @sharleenjoynt</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Today Courtney Bagby, manager to many of your favorite influencers and reality stars from Bachelor, to Big Brother, to Dance Moms, basically any show you can think of drops by to give the behind the scenes of how social media works as a business. Ever wondered just exactly how brand partnerships work or what goes into all those instagram ads you see? Well we break it all down, including how you can use social media for your own business, to build your personal brand, or to just show up authentically in this public space, leaning less into numbers and more into building a community of your own on social media!</p> <p>@somethingtosharepodcast</p> <p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p> <p>guest: @courtneysylvanna</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>We do a very deep dive on all things dating and what makes a successful dating profile! We aren't experts necessarily, but we do have very strong opinions. We want you to have a renewed outlook on dating after this episode. We hope that with some easy shifts and a new perspective on dating that you can get out there and find your perfect match. Sydney brings along her own perfect match to help her break down all of your profiles and get the male perspective on dating and creating a successful dating profile! Press play and share with anyone that is dating right now! Tag on social media and always feel free to reach out with more questions!</p><p>To watch on youtube:</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/T4FxCdv0MDE" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/T4FxCdv0MDE</a></p><p>@somethingtosharepod</p><p>@sydneylotuaco<br>guest host: @njw_0401</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>We have a #bachelornation favorite on today, Katie Morton to catch up with what she's been up to post show, including how she feels about the Bachelor now. We talk self care and her hacks for including more of it on a regular basis. She recently entered into a long distance relationship with someone who lives in London so I ask her all about how they make that work, tips for dating virtually, and growing a relationship overseas. We also discuss Katie's own journey with narcolepsy and why we all should be sleeping as much as we can! &nbsp;Share this one with someone who loves self care and who needs Katie's insight into relationship and leaning into the things that are showing up for you in your life.&nbsp;</p><p>@somethingtosharepodcast</p><p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @katieemo</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>The Face behind the well known instagram @female.in.finance is stoping by to teach us everything we should have, but didn't learn in school about money. We talk how to make it, how to invest it, how to get out of debt, and just how to make more money overall! This one is for anyone that has ever wanted to create more wealth in their lives, and utilize the money you already made to create a better future. We talk all of this and answer your listener questions at the end so make sure to press, play, listen in, and maybe even take notes on this incredibly informative and useful episode with Leandra Peters! Share it with someone who likes money, so basically everyone!!</p> <p>@somethingtosharepodcast (be sure to get your dating profiles in! dm screen shots so we can help you guys get all the dates in 2021!)</p> <p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p> <p>guest: @female.in.finance (go to her profile for all of her links she mentioned in this episode)</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Sydney chats with the President of Pure Barre, an incredibly successful barre fitness studio that has taken over the map with its cult following. Sydney gets firsthand knowledge on what Regan owes her successes to, what makes pure barre so effective and popular, and the road it took her to get to this position. Regan has great advice on how to achieve success and longevity in career, ways to incorporate passion into business without forgetting about the finance of it all, and what she thinks young and new business owners need know, all in this very enlightening episode with Regan Stokes!</p> <p>More on Regan:</p> <p>Regan Stokes first entered into the field of franchising through a career opportunity to join the team of a budding franchisor in the fitness space. While Stokes was primarily working in client management before that, she became fascinated by the concept of franchising and saw first-hand how the franchisor and franchisee could work together to create the strongest business possible. After starting in a franchise relations role, she quickly worked her way up onto the executive leadership team.</p> <p>Now, as the president of&nbsp;Pure&nbsp;Barre, a boutique fitness concept with over 550 locations, Stokes is responsible for building a business model and support system that allows entrepreneurs to achieve their dreams of business ownership. She was appointed President of the company in January 2021.</p> <p>Reach out!</p> <p>@somethingtosharepodcast</p> <p>hosted by @sydneylotuaco</p> <p>guest: @pure_barre</p> <p>www.purebarre.com&nbsp;</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Today we speak to Radha Agrawal- the mastermind behind Daybreaker, THINX, Super Sproutz, and DOSE, Radha is a successful entrepreneur, mom, author, speaker, DJ, inventor, and investor. She has toured with Oprah Winfrey and has helped to cultivate communities centered around joy all across the world. Radha is currently working on a project with UC Berkeley's Greater Good Science Center on a revolutionary study on joy. Today we discuss this idea of joy and how to find it in our own lives, cultivating a community of like minded people, and rethinking entrepreneurship in our careers. After we spent 2020 being so disconnected, it's important to take in conversations like this one with Radha for how we can move forward today towards a more joyous and connected life. Share it with someone who needs to hear this convo!</p> <p>DISCOUNT CODE:&nbsp;</p> <p>Something to Share listeners 50% off their first month of DOSE (following their 14 day free trial) with the code&nbsp;<strong>JOYSHARE.</strong></p> <p>@somethingtosharepod</p> <p>@sydneylotuaco</p> <p><strong>guest</strong>: @love.radha</p> <p><strong>Websites</strong>: daybreaker.com, radhaagrawal.com</p> <p><strong>Book</strong>: Belong: Find Your People, Create Community &amp; Live A More Connected Life.</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Tammy Ly from Peter's season is on today to talk all things Peter's Season, including her feud with Mykenna and Kelsey and what happened from her perspective. We talk the current state of the franchise and whether we think it will continue, who she has her eye on if she goes to Paradise, and teaches us how to bottle up her confidence and drive to apply it to our own lives. So much to take away from this one, so share with someone that can relate to Tammy's boldness, resilience, and her ability to turn adversity into strength.&nbsp;</p> <p>@somethingtosharepodcast</p> <p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p> <p>guest: @tammykayly</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>The highly requested episode is finally here! Tayshia and Zac Clark are here after finding love on the Bachelorette ABC and transitioning to their new lives in the real world. We discuss their lives post show, their future plans, and some of the most monumental moments on their season. We talk partnership, what makes their relationship different and so successful post show, and so much more. Share this one with someone who is a fan of Tayshia and Zac or who could use some renewed faith in love!</p><p>@somethingtosharepod</p><p>host @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guests: @tayshia @zwclark</p><p><br></p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Julia Parzyck is the face behind the popular instagram Fit, Fat, and All That. She is an eating disorder recovery coach who took her own battle with an eating disorder to her eventual recovery and her current work coaching people who struggle with body image, eating disorders, and mindset around their bodies. We talk body neutrality, representation of female bodies in media, rant about intuitive fasting, why the Bachelor never represents curvy women, and much more.&nbsp;</p><p>@somethingtosharepod</p><p>Host: @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @fitfatandallthat&nbsp;</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Elyse Dehlbom was a stand out on Season 23 of the Bachelor who decided to leave the Bachelor (Colton Underwood) on her own also while in a wedding dress (she explains why lol). Elyse talks about a very hard time she went through with the passing of her sister and how she allows her legacy to live on in how she lives her life today. We also break down her time on the show and a lot of behind the scenes moments both Sydney and Elyse shared on their season and what the deal really is with Elyse and Blake Horstmann. A lot of fun to be had, some really deep conversation, and some insightful advice on dating in general, but especially in your 30s on this episode. So press play and share with someone that needs to hear it!</p><p>@somethingtosharepod</p><p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @elysemichelle_mua</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Helen Hall is the founder of Blender Bombs a smoothie product that turned into a lifestyle! Helen took her 30 lb weight loss journey post college and turned it into a full blown business, helping people find wellness and bettering the health of so many. There are so many good tidbits in here about entrepreneurship, growing a business, and finding work that you're aligned with. So whether you're looking for a job that has that, starting your own business, or just finding alignment and your purpose in life, THIS ONES FOR YOU! Share it with someone that needs it and leave a 5 star review to help get this message to the people that need it!</p> <p>@somethingtosharepod @sydneylotuaco</p> <p>guest: @helenhall @blenderbombs</p> <p>https://blenderbombs.com/</p> <p>@80x20market&nbsp;</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

We bring on a Bachelor Nation favorite from Ben Higgins' season and Bachelor in Paradise Caila Quinn to rehash some of her times on television and the lessons she learned in the process. We discuss dealing with reddit trolls and social media hate from the show and being lost after her year on television to eventually finding herself in New York City. Caila and Sydney discuss what it was like to be single and dating in NYC and the thing she did after all of her first dates in hopes to find herself. Caila gives us all the details on her time on the beloved show Say Yes to the Dress, wedding planning during the pandemic, and some incredible advice for people, single, in relationships, or dating. Share this one with anyone that can relate to Caila's incredible self love journey and the trials of dating and embracing whatever period of life you're in.&nbsp;</p><p>@somethingtosharepod</p><p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @cailaquinn &nbsp;</p><p>https://withlovecaila.com/</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Today we do a good old fashion bachelor episode break down with a Reality TV expert David Yontef. He has interviewed many of your favorite Bravo stars, from the Housewives, to Southern Charmed, to Vanderpump Rules, Below Deck, and more. David was also a contestant on one of Sydney's first favorite Reality TV shows Millionaire Matchmaker. He is great at breaking that fourth wall of reality television, which we do a lot on today's episode. We talk Matt James' season and the most recent episode, the newest Bachelorette announcement rumors, cancel culture among the Bachelor franchise and more (including one that is currently taking place), and what we know about editing production and stuff everyone wants to know about filming Reality TV. This one is for those Reality TV buffs or for whoever enjoys some juicy gossip. Press play, share with your fellow Reality TV fans, and enjoy!</p><p>@somethingtosharepodcast</p><p><br>Guest @davidyontef @behindvelvetrope</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Today we're sharing something we found a few years ago that changed the lives of both Sydney and Bibiana Julian. We bring on Erin Claire Jones, a Human design guide, coach, and speaker to have a Human design geek out. She uses Human Design to help people fully understand self in order to cultivate the knowledge and tools they need to live a life of ease. This episode will teach you that it is ok to be unique and operate differently than others, that we are all here for our own unique purpose and gifts, and when we operate from that space life becomes easier. Our hope that after this episode, you will feel seen, understood, and have the tools to help you better operate in your life TODAY. So press play and share this episode with someone who could benefit from this conversation and the amazing guidance of Erin Claire Jones!</p><p>Episode details:</p><p>follow our new ig handle: @somethingtosharepodcast</p><p>host: @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guests: @bibi_julz @erinclairejones</p><p><br></p><p>Resources:</p><p>Link for the Blueprint, a personalized guide to their unique design:&nbsp;<a href="http://erinclairejones.com/blueprint" target="_blank">erinclairejones.com/blueprint</a></p><p><strong>Use code&nbsp;SYDNEY for 10% off their Blueprint.</strong></p><p>LOOK UP YOUR HUMAN DESIGN: <a href="http://erinclairejones.com/lookup" target="_blank">erinclairejones.com/lookup</a></p><p>Book a session with Erin: &nbsp;<a href="http://erinclairejones.com/individual" target="_blank">erinclairejones.com/individual</a></p><p>Erin's website:&nbsp;<a href="http://erinclairejones.com/" target="_blank">erinclairejones.com</a></p><p>More info on Erin:</p><p><em>Erin Claire Jones uses Human Design to help thousands of individuals and companies step into their work and their lives as their truest selves and to their highest potential. Her work as a guide, coach, and speaker has attracted a growing community of over 70,000 people who turn to her teachings for practical tools, digestible tips, and deeper self-knowledge they can access to live with greater ease and authenticity every single day.</em></p><p><em>With work featured in Forbes, mindbodygreen, Well&amp;Good, and Nylon; words shared on over 80 podcasts such as Almost30, That’s So Retrograde, Highest Self, and Chatty Broads; and conversations with crowds of hundreds around the world, Erin’s insights are highly sought-after because they make Human Design pragmatic, tangible, accessible —&nbsp;and immediately applicable to everyday life.</em></p><p><em>––</em></p><p><em>Human Design is a synthesis of ancient wisdom and modern science that sheds light on a person’s energetic makeup, as well as specific tools they can use to live at their happiest, healthiest, highest potential. It doesn’t change who they are; it teaches them who they are. It offers insight into what’s possible, and highlights the significance of understanding and living as the fullest expression of themselves.</em></p><p><em>By putting this tool to work in her own life, Erin is showing the world a new way of work, a new path toward success, and a new perspective on living as you truly are.</em></p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Many are wanting to start their own business, or go out on their own these days, but few are brave enough to try. Today we have on the incredibly inspiring women of the intimate skin care brand ConditionHer, an intimate skincare brand designed to care for down there. This one is for anyone that has ever wanted to start their own business, has a female anatomy, or even knows a female! Learn how Wendy Rose Berry and Eugenia Marshall of ConditionHer, a Black and Female founded business designed to empower people to feel good in their bodies. So much to take away here including a quick bachelor update from Sydney, so tune in and be sure to share this with someone who could use the inspiration!</p> <p>New podcast name coming soon!</p> <p>Code SYDNEY for 20% off at conditionher.com (does not expire)</p> <p>podcast: @blackbeansandricepod</p> <p>guests: @conditionher</p> <p>conditionher.com&nbsp;</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>We have a Bachelor Nation favorite on the podcast today! We talk to Ivan Hall a favorite from the most recent season of the Bachelor. Find out more about the guy America fell for this season and how he's learned to show compassion and understanding in his life even after some challenging life experiences. He's the guy you want to hang out with, who you want your friend to date, or who you want to have meet your parents. We talk his experience on the show that almost didn't happen, dating two different Bachelorettes, and having groundbreaking conversations on national television. Share this one with someone that needs it!</p> <p>Resources:&nbsp;</p> <p>@blackbeansandricepod</p> <p>@sydneylotuaco</p> <p>&nbsp;guest:&nbsp;</p> <p>@ivanbhall</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>This episode is bittersweet. We find out the new path Nicole has decided to take and what that means for her on the podcast. &nbsp;Then Sydney opens up about what podcasting means for her and how she wishes to affect those listening the same way podcasts have done for her. The show must always go on Beanies and we move forward to talk with the amazing and inspiring Olivia Caridi! Find out how she overcame the deep depression she fell into after the Bachelor and the incredible strides she has made to be the stronger and empowered person she is today. This one is a little sad, but ultimately one that revolves around growth and taking chances on ourselves. We know our listeners can all relate. Share this one with someone going through a transition, seeking their purpose, or would like to relate to 3 women just trying to figure it all out.</p> <p>Reach out!</p> <p>@blackbeansandricepod</p> <p>@sydneylotuaco @nicolelovar</p> <p>guest: @oliviacaridi host of Mouthing Off Podcast!</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>We want to get in the headspace for an incredible 2021! Find out what Tayshia told us at the beginning of last year that basically explains how we're not single right now and the time we almost tried to run into Tyler Cameron. Then we break down what we're leaving in 2020 and the intentions we're setting for this year for our own lives and for you Beanies! Happy New Year we &lt;3 you!</p> <p>@blackbeansandricepod</p> <p>@sydeylotuaco @nicolelovar</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Blake Horstmann is on the pod to speak through his experience on Reality TV. We talk heart break, social media shame, mistakes, and overcoming very dark times. We get some juicy background details from his time on the Bachelorette, why he was passed over as the Bachelor, and what led to the epic Stagecoach disaster that happened on Paradise. Then we get to break down all 32 women from Matt James' season, airing on January 4th! Find out who Blake picks as his top three and meet all the beautiful women from this new season of the Bachelor. Be sure to check out the episode on our youtube channel linked below!</p> <p>youtube:</p> <p>https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2FOzhOxe5og&amp;feature=youtu.be</p> <p>@blackbeansandricepod</p> <p>hosts: @sydneylotuaco @nicolelovar</p> <p>guest: @balockaye.h</p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>This episode feels like a reunion with your best friends. We have the legendary Mike and Connor on from Hannah's season of the Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise for a good old fashioned catch up. We find out the latest on their new business ventures, being roommates, and whether or not they're currently single. A lot to unpack here. We also find out which part of television they enjoyed, what part they hated, and all about their plans to go dark on social media one day. So press play, have a laugh, and get ready to all hang out as friends!</p><p>podcast: @blackbeansandricepod</p><p>hosts: @sydneylotuaco @nicolelovar</p><p>guests:</p><p>@connorsaeli @mikejohnson &amp; mikejohnsonsmile.com to check out his new book!</p><p><br></p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Today we have on Mykenna Dorn from Peter's season of the Bachelor. We know her as the adorable, bubbly, sometimes emotional, and her expressive tongue faces, but there's so much more to her and her experience from the show. We get to know exactly what she went through, what she learned, and whether or not we will be seeing her on our screens again. This episode is for anyone that's been through tough times and has learned how to get themselves out or if you're currently going through something now, we're here for you!&nbsp;</p><p>Hosts: @blackbeansandricepod</p><p>@nicolelovar @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @mykenna</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>

<p>Today we have a very special and very unique member of Bachelor Nation on the podcast, Kendall Long!! She is the perfect example of how to own your quirks and be true to yourself even while on National Television. We discuss just how Kendall became the way she is, how she ended up on the Bachelor, dating Ari, her Paradise relationship with Joe and eventual break up and a deep dive into her amazing new book "Just Curious", Out Now! Find out whether or not Kendall is dating now, if she'd be the Bachelorette or go back on Paradise, and what's next for her, including the excitement around her new book! Kendall is a true Beanie and we are so excited to have her on the pod today!</p><p>if you wanna dm us: @blackbeansandricepod</p><p>@nicolelovar @sydneylotuaco</p><p>guest: @itskendalllong&nbsp;</p><p>Kendalls Book: "Just Curious A Notebook of Questions"</p>--- Support this podcast: <a href="https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support" rel="payment">https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support</a>