3 in 30 Takeaways for Moms

A podcast with 3 actionable takeaways in every 30-minute episode because you are a busy mom with a full schedule and an even fuller brain. Listen in to feel encouraged and inspired, as we learn together how to overcome overwhelm and find more peace and magic in motherhood.

Hosted by Rachel Nielson, a mother, teacher, and writer.

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124: How to Stop Judging Yourself
3 tools I learned from counselors to stop negative self-talk
36 min
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123: What We’re Doing to Survive this Coronavir...
The team of moms who make 3 in 30 possible are rooting for you!
27 min
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122: 5 Things To Do When You Feel Like You Are ...
5 simple coping tools that make a huge difference for combating anxiety
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121: How to Clarify your Life’s Purpose // Broo...
Finding your life’s purpose; Is it just something that sort of happens to you? Or can you actually take steps to figure it out?Brooke Snow is the perfect guest to address this topic!
35 min
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120: How to Teach Children to Eat // Holly Young
From picky eaters to diagnosed biological eating challenges, feeding your family can be harder than anticipated. This episode will teach you about managing and overcoming feeding difficulties with kids.
30 min
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119: How to Fall Back in Love with Motherhood W...
3 simple strategies for refocusing when motherhood feels daunting
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118: How to Raise Confident Children // Marilyn...
Marilyn Faulkner raised five rockstar children, helped her husband start multiple companies, got a Masters degree when she was 45, and published three books (with her next book due for publication in July). She spreads wisdom and laughter everywhere she goes, and she shares some of both on this week’s episode. Listen in as she teaches us how to raise confident children.
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117: Cultivating More Patience // excerpt from ...
3 “opportunities” we have to practice patience (and get better at it!) every day in our parenting
27 min
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116: Accepting & Reframing Anxiety // Becky Hig...
3 ways to understand your anxious feelings and how to manage them.
35 min
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115: Why Won’t My Partner Parent the Way I Want...
3 ways to thrive in your parenting and your partnership, even if you don't do everything the same way
33 min
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114: How to Stop Looking at Your Phone So Much ...
Do you ever felt guilty for being on your phone too much? Do you find your phone to be a distraction in your life? Do you have a desire to learn how to stop looking at your phone so much? Dr. Katie Penry, a licensed clinical psychologist and mother of two young children, is on the podcast today teaching us the brain research behind why we need to look up from our phones.
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113: Teaching Your Kids about Racism & Bias // ...
3 conversations to have with your children to start discussions about racism.
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112: How to Declutter Your Schedule // Miranda ...
3 strategies for building a more intentional schedule
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111: 3 Simple Strategies to Avoid Mom Burnout
3 ways to build more daily rest and self-care into your mom-life
27 min
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110: How to Compassionately Respond to Homeless...
A social worker who has worked with people experiencing homelessness for over 10 years shares 3 takeaways for what we as mothers can do to help
40 min
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109: How to Find Gratitude in the Marathons of ...
A mother of five shares 3 life-changing mantras that get her through long runs and long days
32 min
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108: How to Get Help for Mental Illness // Sara...
A mother who struggles with bipolar disorder and depression gives three takeaways for finding help.
35 min
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107: Managing Depression in Motherhood // Sarah...
Today's episode aims to build awareness for moms who have wondered if they may be struggling with mental illness and a few basic coping skills for what to do when you are in the midst of it.
32 min
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106: 3 Ways to Improve Your Marriage TODAY: My ...
I know this is not news to anyone, but…caring for our marriages is SO IMPORTANT (and not always easy)! Which is why I’m so excited to share three ways to improve your marriage today. I had the opportunity to attend “An Evening with the Gottmans” date night in October, and I decided to do a followup Zoom call to discuss my takeaways with anyone from my email list who wanted to join. I included a worksheet for fill out during the call to make this as actionable as possible because, as I’ve mentioned before, we all know that marriage gets put on the back burner way too often. This week’s episode on 3 in 30 is a replay of that Zoom call, so you can ALL participate! >>Click HERE to download the worksheet if you want to fill it out as you listen or after you listen!<<< Here are my three takeaways from a night with the Gottmans… 3 Ways to Improve Your Marriage Play with your spouse. Consider: What are you currently doing to play with your spouse, and what can you start going? Listen to your spouse. Consider:When is your spouse most likely to talk to you, and how can you make yourself more emotionally available during that time? Express gratitude for your spouse. Consider: What are 3 reasons you are grateful for your spouse right now? TELL THEM. Show Notes: Eight Dates by John and Julie Gottman (their newest book!) Episode 95 with Nate Bagley: 3 Rituals of Connection for your Marriage I want to hear how YOU put these takeaways into action this week! Follow along on Instagram and join the conversation. Also…do you have any tips on ways to improve your marriage? If so, share in a comment below!
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105: For the Mom of Littles
If you’re anything like me, you sometimes realize with surprise that you’ve entered a different (and easier) phase of motherhood.  You didn’t even notice it slowly shifting. But you suddenly realize that your babies have started sleeping longer stretches at night. Or, they have really learned to put their shoes on by themselves. Or they are beside you helping prepare their lunch for school the next day. (What the heck??) Transitions like these are often very subtle. But when we take a moment to reflect on it, sometimes it feels like a miracle that we made it to where we are, doesn’t it? I am in a new season of motherhood and have been reminiscing on what life was like when I had two very young, spirited children, and I wanted to share three articles I wrote for the website Power of Moms during this rewarding but equally trying season of my life. I hope that these reflections are helpful for the moms of littles.  Or for whatever season you’re in that sometimes feels a little (or a lot) blurry: My Articles on Power of Moms -The first article is called, “The Best Year of My Life?” -The second article is called “It Is What It Is.” -The third article is called “How My Son’s Routine Chart Makes Me a Better Mom.”  Check out all of my articles from Power of Moms, many of which were written during naptimes while I was in the midst of parenting littles, here: https://powerofmoms.com/author/rachel-nielson/ And don’t forget, I want to hear YOUR three takeaways this week as we finish up celebrating the second birthday of 3 in 30! Visit 3in30podcast.com/birthday for more details, or scroll through the hashtag on Instagram for a good dose of inspiration and a reminder that we all have unique wisdom to share. Have you read anything on Power of Moms before? If so, what did you read? Share in a comment below! Last call for Podcast University! If you have been thinking about starting or growing a podacst, join us this week for a free class. Or enroll in one of our comprehensive courses! Enrollment for this session ends November 1st and won’t open again until the spring. 3in30podcast.com/podcastu
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104: How to Move Through Grief towards Joy // A...
“The quickest way for anyone to reach the sun and the light of day is not to run west chasing after the sun, but to head east, plunging into the darkness until one comes to the sunrise.” -Jerry L. Sittser National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Day was October 15th, and I wanted to honor this sacred day by dedicating an episode to mothers who walk through life with a piece of their heart and soul missing. If this is you, I hope that today’s episode on how to move through grief might offer some comfort. Today’s guest is Anna Packard, a mother of four who lost her infant son Charlie when he was four months old. She also has a PhD in clinical psychology and is a therapist at Balance Health and Healing, so she has both personal and professional experience in how to move through grief toward joy after immense loss. How to Move Through Grief * Remember, the only way out is through: practice willingness, prioritize self-care (which includes finding a support group of other mothers who have lost children), and allow all emotions. What we resist, persists. * Look for beauty, gifts, and meaning along the way. Assigning your own meaning to your experience can be a powerful step toward healing. * Remember that you are stronger than you realize. (This is very hard to hear in the early stages of grief, but you will find that it is true with time.) Show Notes Anna’s website: balancehealthandhealing.com Anna’s Instagram: @balancehealthhealing A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss by Jerry L. Sittser Grief support for parents who have experience loss through miscarriage, stillborn, or infant loss. http://www.shareparentsofutah.org/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/326053507470465/ Utah SIDS parents group on FB https://www.facebook.com/groups/569722193074649/ Episodes from 3 in 30: “Three Messages of Hope for the Darkest Times“ “How to Support a Loved One who is Grieving“ -Have you ever thought about starting a podcast? Or do you already have a podcast but are frustrated because it isn’t growing as much as you’d like it to? Podcast University is open for enrollment again now through November 1st! Podcast U is an online school for all things podcasting that I run with my dear friend, the host from About Progress, Monica Packer. -Join us for one of our FREE courses this month both about starting a podcast AND growing a podcast.
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103: “My 3 in 30”: The Happy Birthday Edition
This week marks the SECOND BIRTHDAY of 3 in 30!
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102: How to Find Work Life “Balance” // Crystal...
As moms, we often wrestle with the desire to find a better balance for work and motherhood. Crystalee Beck, co-founder of The Mama Ladder, is here to shift our perspectives by teaching us that both work and motherhood are valuable parts of living our purpose.
28 min
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101: Why & How to Talk to your Kids about Skin ...
Three takeaways from an anti-racism educator and mother of three
31 min
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100: How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography...
Today is the second in our series of episodes titled “You Are Your Child’s Most Important Teacher.” Dina Alexander is a mother of three teenagers and the founder of Educate and Empower Kids.
30 min